D'vorahDavida
Yetzirah

Help!. . .I've Been FlyLady'd
Wed Jan 05 2005


I made a big mistake.

I headed over to Fly Lady's website to see what all the talk was about.

Now I will admit I have a fairly good handle on clutter at my house, I certainly don't have one on the actual cleanliness part. My kitchen needs mopped and I actually can't remember the last time I dusted. I got to thinking that maybe my mental state could be improved by some more responsible homemaking techniques.

The more I read, the more I realized how much room for improvement there is around here. Especially in my routine. Like maybe not turning on the computer FIRST thing in the morning, but instead prioritizing other more important chores and getting them out of the way for the day, THEN turning the thing on.

She is also a big advocate of "baby steps".... like only spending 15 minutes working on a certain zone of your house. Now I come from a longstanding tradition of the "blitzkrieg" style of housekeeping. Sort of letting things get out of hand and then jumping in with both feet and working like a demon with my hair on fire until it is PERFECTLY clean.

This actually worked when I was in my 20's and 30's. But it's not looking too good for the 50's.

So this morning, I worked in my entryway "zone". I put away some of the extra coats and shoes and cleaned off the coatrack shelf and DECORATED it. I put a line of my gourds up there, and a wreath that my aunt made for me, so it looks DELIBERATE, not just a bunch of stuff hanging out for convenience sake. I like it!

The project for tomorrow is the front porch. Not the whole house. Just the front porch.

I like this FlyLady. I think she's onto something.



The Scale Said 142.2 and holding....

12 Comments
  • From:
    LostInHeaven (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Jan 05 2005
    Welcome to being a flybaby :) I've been attempting it for a while now, and the only room I really have to worry about is my bedroom LOL! got my mom kinda into it too so she's changed just a little bit too
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    Speriavortices (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Jan 05 2005
    Lol I do similar and then wonder how the day got away with me and man time flies.I hope the 15 min zone working works for you I will certainly try it.I have thought of what if I spent one day on each room,hummm maybe I would get somewhere and the room would look like I cleaned it lol.I try not to go on the computer in the morning because I lose time fast lol,and oops look where I am hahaha but it is 1 pm man and I thought it was morning,but I have been to the post office so far.I feel for ya and am there in the trenches.I think I will check out her sight Fly Lady,sounds very enlightening.Oh by the way dusting ? what what is that lolol.It's been so long.I use the swifter duster,it helps a lot.
    Happy house zoning :)
  • From:
    InStitches (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Jan 05 2005
    Yep, the computer is definately a problem. I got sucked in early and have been here for two hours. lol

  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Jan 05 2005
    sounds like wisdom ta me
  • From:
    Fairywishes (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Jan 05 2005
    ha ha you've been flywashed! it has been great for me - I am the typical perfectionist if I couldn't do it 'right' I just left it, got fed up, screamed and shouted, blitzed til it was sparkling then it all went downhill again. It's much easier now, tho' I am still very much a Flybaby! I did less than 15 mins in my closet today while getting the kids in the bath and the difference is actually amazing - you live with it for so long and it takes you less that 15 mins to chuck it out...

    the computer is a big time stealer for me, I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE it tho' ;-)

    enough of this flying talk!

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  • From:
    Fairywishes (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Jan 05 2005
    pah! you wait, you will be doing all sorts of this when you get those messages and thinking 'why oh why didn't I do this before?' Things that take about 5 mintues that you have been putting off for years.

    hee hee hee....before you know it you will have a Flylady book or product on your wish/gift list, then you really will know you've been caught!

    it's great though - especially when you get a message to love yourself and go take a hot bath and lotion up!

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  • From:
    Sweetsummerbreeze (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Jan 05 2005
    Welcome to flylady. I'm a member too. It really does seem to help. I don't follow it completely. Not just yet because if I see something messy I have to clean it whether it's in the right zone or not. I guess that is something I need to work on.
  • From:
    Ichandra (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Jan 06 2005
    ah mon amie I see you have cultivated an entire year at least of cuteness and now your cuteness has surpassed all borders even though I dont know you beyond this journal I cant help but suspect that this journal has cultivated your cuteness

    now yes that is cute about the little red hen but mon amie dont forget that the little red hen became very phobic she started yelling the sky is falling the sky is falling so we cant model ourselves on her too desperately

    my heart aches for griffen really I wish I could be the next female pidepiperess play a tune and lure every animal into a paradise uninhabited by humans we have a choice to use birth control or not ask phoebe one meow means yes two meows means no
    I am a pauper but I should be a rich bitch because I love other people to clean my house the lady in our building only charges ten bucks an hour oh la la she can have a small apartment sparkling by then but I tried it once and gave her more money and I feel so guilty getting her to do this stuff that I think the next time I will get my place cleaned externally I will call out of the building I do not want a fucking slave it is rude

    well this was fun my dearest amie
    a la prochaine
    love ichandra
  • From:
    Monstergue (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Jan 06 2005
    no comment. It all sounds good in theory but in application it doesn't work well
  • From:
    MizzM (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Jan 06 2005
    How funny that I read your entry just after going through my Fly Lady email of the day! Since I am easily-distracted and have little "down time," I was attracted to the Fly Lady principles of 15 minutes here and 15 minutes there. I try to do a little bit every day and I only tackle the BIG things on the weekends when I can get them DONE. I am DEFINITELY a fan of the "de-clutter" theme. I spent an hour or so on Sunday copying and pasting Fly Lady Wisdom into Word documents that I could print out and store in my Day Planner for reference/inspiration.

    I think she has a great deal of wisdom to impart, and while I can't follow all of her "techniques" to the T, I can certainly adapt them to fit within my own personal schedule/lifestyle.

    Baby Steps, my friend!
  • From:
    Bookworm (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Jan 06 2005
    I'm glad she's got through to yet another person. For some reason I'm just not on the same wavelength as this woman. I mean, she starts out by telling me I need to put on shoes at the beginning of my day!!! This woman does not understand me at all. I only wear shoes when strictly necessary. I suppose some of what she says is good, but I have this mental block with her now. ;-)
  • From:
    AQuietEvening (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Jan 06 2005
    Ahhh!! another flybaby! Welcome.

    ~QE