Tue May 25 2004 - Resolving Issues
Resolving Issues
The 23rd was the worst day. My mom was filthy drunk and decided to insult Michelle for about an hour. At one point, my mom was kicking the door open just so we'd hear her. It'd seemed like things were going from worst to terrible.

Monday, I guess my mom thought about what she did and left me a message on the phone saying we needed to talk. We talked and it was turning into another argument. I decided to change my approach and just went to hug her. She then calmed down and it seems like things will be alright. *atleast I hope so* Other than that, the day was very ordinary. Me and Michelle got along good and stuff. Then from 1-4 AM in the morning, I worked on some theatre art essays I had to do. I got that done and slept.

Today, it was a pretty ok day. Watched some tv, went to turn in my papers. After that, filled out some paper work and me and michelle decided to eat some dougnuts and go to the park.

We go to the park and walk around. We are in the Curtis Park area which is vastly better than where I am. The houses are nice looking and we even look inside the houses. Lots of ideas on how we'd like our house. After a while, I got slightly depressed because I feel its really hard to get a decent house. Michelle reassured me we would after we got our PH.d. I dunno if we'll be able to get that far. I am kinda smart. Though I feel intimidated sometimes by school. Anyways, we get home and thank goodness my mom is asleep.

Here I am with Michelle. The room is a mess and we got to clean it. Also we really need to do laundry. I'm happy though. There is no school for 2 weeks. That is all.

Comments (1)

kaliko88 (Legacy)
All of you seem to fight over such small things. There's just so many of them, though. Teeny tiny power plays. And it all causes massive stress that could be reduced if some of those fights were just ignored, or avoided.

I keep telling myself that when a customer annoys me, or a coworker. Thing is, with practice it actually works. There are just some things not worth fighting about. All it gets you is a headache and hurt feelings.

You're the psych major Tinoz. Who gets hurt the most in these fights? Most often, the ones who know better but who fight anyway.

And if you're only an ok friend, how do you expect to have good friends? Try an experiment. Just be a good friend. Just do it for the sheer enjoyment of being a good friend. You should notice some pleasant differences. Start with Michelle. Heck, you should both start with each other.

And yes, I'm serious. Hubby and I are just a few months away from our 10th anniversary. Know why? Because we not only love each other, we are each other's best friend. You can't have love without friendship. It just doesn't work.

>^..^<
 
 
 
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