Since I have the time, I'm going to "address" the comments. The first one that caught my eye was the one from "just reading". He/she says " I also notice that you are in love with this girl. How do you know that she is the right one for you. I wonder because I never fall in love before. And when you fall in love, do you pick her over your life? You can advice me by writing your response on your diary" Well, I know she is the right one because she has stayed by side through alot of difficult stuff. Most young people think love is about happy stuff like giving roses or surprise ballons. While that is a component of love, it's alot more than that. It's been there when the fun is over. If I'm going through a tough time, I know she will listen to me and advise me. We also work as a team. If there is a bill to pay, I know she got my back and I got her. It also isn't about looks. If she was to grow really fat or get burned, I'd still lover her all the same and vice versa. I think you can tell when it isn't love when it's about sex, or looks, or the me,me,me attitude. Especially that me me me attitude. It should be we we we. And no trivial threats like, If you love me, you BETTER do this or you don't. That's just a bossy person trying to get his way. I definatly pick her over my life. I'd die for her if a situation came to that. That's easy. The hard part *believe me* is living with the person when that person is having a bad day or even month. As for the one thing I want you to get out of all this, don't be hasty. Most guys are out for ONE thing. They may sound nice, but have EVIL intentions. And same goes for women in a different way. Many are out there that'll use you for money or what you can do for them. It's a cold world, pick wisely or end up VERY VERY hurt.

The next comment was from kaliko, aka >^..^< . *for those with bad vision, it's a cat. Anyways, she says, "Keep one thing in mind - the best church is the bible, especially a bible study group. It's starting to finally register with me that life with God is life in the Word" I only know of one bible study in my area, which is the one with Rebecca's group. I know there are probaly a ton of others, but I hate being the new guy. I think that is what kinda scares me away from going somewhere new. Though I should only being going for God and the bible, I still have a problem making that my only reason for going. When i put my psychology hat on, I think it's cause I have a need of affiliation and of belonging. Anyways, thanks for the comment, always appreciated.

The last two comments I'm going to lump together. One from niels, the other from a "private, mysterious to you" commenter. They both suggest an evangelical church. Before they said that, I was thinking of one already. That just adds to my thinking that maybe I should go. If I do, I'll let you know. And niels, congrats on coming back to the good ol U S of A. You still with Pamela right? Yeah, I'm having a good time her in Cali. Nice and hot, the way I like it. Still in the 90's, and it's late October. : ) Take care, keep in touch. Thanks people for comments. GTG. ~END~