Now that I'm in college and seeing alot of different girls, I decided that I must have a blue print for myself. I decided to write down what a girl must have in order for me to date her.
OK, first I'm gonna talk about looks. *why that, looks is what you see first about a person* A girl I'm dating must be between 4'8 and 5'9. *I'm only 5'7 1/2 ya know* Must weigh less than me. I weigh like, I think 150lbs. The girl I'm dating can't be fater. Why, well, they're bones are smaller, making for fat pound for pound. Her hair must be longer than mines. I can't have someone mistake my lady for a guy. Plus, I love long hair. Defects, there can't be a defect where everyone would stare. What do I mean, well, a lil scare, ok. Burned 90% of body, defect. Bad teeth, um, exceptable. Outfits, a girl has to present herself as such. She can't dress like me. I don't want to see my girl in baggier pants than me. I don't want her with fubu on her shirt. HEr shoes must be shoes. NO BOOTS! Makeup, the less, the better. Most girls look like clowns with makeup. Natural is in for me.
NOw that I put that there, now the personality. First and formost, must believe in God. THey don't have to be a christian, but must be open to it. Secondly, they must not be mean. I LOVE nice people. THe sweethart type turn me on. Also, a girl that can express her feelings. SHe must be able to be open with me. No, I can't tell you. TRy to explain. Last thing, must be somewhat smart. I can't stand dumb people. I have to be able to meet you on an intellectual level.
SO, there you have it. If I find someone like that. Relationship time. SO if your in the Sacramento area and you like my pic and you fit that description. LOL. You better email me. LOL
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Love sees past all that...(well its supposed to)
I met my husband on the net before it was even "the net". I didnt know what he looked like. Back then you couldn't send pictures. I fell in love with him way before I met him.
And when I met him I didn't care that he was slightly overweight and that he wasn't a God.
I've been with him now for 5 years total. 4 of those years we've been married.
In time you'll see what I mean :)
If i ever get married (and i'm only 17) or i suppose date a guy...the first thing i think of is "How do you look" but once i get to know someone, and if i like their personality, then it doesn't matter to me what they look like. OK, they can't be what we call "UGLY" but i don't care if they're not this "Drop-dead-gorgeous" type...it doesn't matter to me. The personality covers that up.
Why does that matter to me? because i'm not what ppl consider "Gorgeous" but i think i'm ok...If ppl can't handle the way i look then it's their problem. we have to be accepting of the way ppl are. FACE it...If they can get up in the morning look in the mirror and go "I LOVE YOU" then they have something special. If they're complaining about it ALL the time, then they have some personal problems to work out before they go and "meet" someone. because, how can you be accepting of others if you can't accept yourself?
I think what Taz means by a girl being over weight *hope you don't mind me trying to explain this from a girls point of view taz* or slightly chubby is they don't usually have as much energy. they're sometimes not very positive about the way they look and its annoying to guys if they have a girlfriend who is always going "Do you think i'm fat?" Face it, guys are in a no win situation with that question.
But Taz, my advice is...you first,God second, personality third, looks fourth! Then, you are guaranteed to find a girl that truly makes you happy....
Well, sorry for the long comment *no i'm not*
see ya around Tazzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
Love Happykatz
xxx
lub,
jessica
*puts on sunnies, coz i'm gonna get smileburnt*
LUV Happykatz
xxx
PS I'll email ya...ASAP
And, Beauty is only skin deep.
Always put God first in all things!
And the rest will take care of it's self.
I have met college graduates who are dumber than a box of rocks and do not have any common sense at all!
and ...
I have met good old fashion country ppl who have good comman sense with high IQ's and they never even finished high school!
not that i date girls, i *am* a girl and i don't wear the stuff ;)
hmmm, it's good to have an open mind when it comes to who you think you'd be attracted to. sometimes you get attracted to the most unlikely people, sometimes the ones that nobody else 'wants', the ones who are constantly overlooked are the most priceless of them all.
think about it
sez