Most of the time, I write here to further delve into various issues and to talk about what has happened to me. (as it is my diary and it is here to log my life) Most of the time, Michelle's name is only thrown in without expanding on her perspective or her impact on me. Well, here is more about her..

She is originally from Hong Kong. Her family came here (to Los Angeles) when she was 8 years old, as her dad got employed as a chef here. (she is 24) She has 3 siblings, an older brother (25), and 2 younger sisters (19, 16).

Considering that no one formally taught her how to speak English or otherwise helped her, she speaks English quite well. She doesn't really have an accent but she does talk a bit fast. Once you're around her for a couple of days, your ears will adjust to her girly sounding voice.

Michelle goes to college with me at UC Davis and only needs 1 class to finish getting her B.A. in Psychology. She has done well as she has an exceptional memory and is able to cram more in one day than I've ever seen or heard of. (that memory actually can be a bad thing as she never forgets anything I have said or promised)

On the myers briggs personality scale, she's considered a ISFP. You could look that up for more detail but I'll give you a bit of analysis in saying that she is introverted (but just barely) and very much a feeler (someone who enjoys feeling over thinking) She is more judgemental than me but less than the average person.

Michelle is more conservative than me. While she is not a christian formally, she does believe in what can only be described as the christian God. (Ironically enough, probaly because of how I was earlier in the relationship, her family is not religious in any discernible way)

As for why she loves me...Hmm... Well, it all started when we would chat to each other about what was happening in our lives. (yes, we met online at yahoo pool...she meant to click create a table but ended up joining a random table, mines) So I was appealing as we could talk very openly to each other, like about our relationships. (we really just started as friends) I won't go over the whole story but she came over and stayed after seeing how caring I was. At first, it might've been because we both needed someone to care about us, but eventually, after sharing everything together, both emotionally and finaciallly, I believe facing everything together all the time helped create a strong bond. Anyone who knows us can testify to the fact that we are next to each other ALL THE TIME. That is both the best thing and worse thing about the relationship. It is more enjoyable than not though. I also asked her recently why she likes me and she said because she can tell me to do something and I'll do it. For example, she can say, "can you get me some water" or "you think you can make me some crab with rice" and I'm on it.

Living with her, the only real downside is that she can be over concerned about germs. I will sometimes have to wash something a second time or otherwise have to deal with the worry. She can also be rigid as when she makes up her mind about something, she usually doesn't change it. Otherwise, she is intensely loyal and a great mom. (she is always talking to lil tinoz, reading him a book and carrying him around) If I missed something, I'm sure she'll let me know. If you have any questions about her, you can ask.

The next entry I'll talk about lil Tinoz, how he's doing etc. Here's a bigger pic of Michelle. (not sure you can see her with the previously uploaded pics of her)