Pragmatist
Pragmatist

Chanukah
Sun Dec 21 2003

The first night didn't turn out as expected. Calichef and The Kid were supposed to spend the weekend with me, but Cali caught cold and decided not to come. She was going to do the cooking, then they were going to shul with me on Saturday, then Sunday go to the first night Grand Menorah lighting on the Capitol steps, then head back home.

I urged her to go to bed and get well, but she insisted on driving down from Tiny Town to give me the candles she had made for me. They are beautiful bue and white. Thank you Cali. And pick up the menorot I had gotten for her and The Kid. I tried to get her to come in for at least a hot cup of tea before she drove back, but no, she wouldn't set foot inside the apartment. This was Thursday evening, so I'd be sure to have the candles she made, and so I could give her the menorot to take home.

I appreciate her concern for my health, and I can't express my gratitude to her for making the trip. I offered to meet her half-way, but she said she'd just as soon drive the whole way as it wouldn't save that much time, anyway.

So I ended up cooking latkes and tuna patties, and I got some jelly donuts for dinner with Megan and Rena. It was a very enjoyable evening, but I do wish Cali and The Kid had been with us.

Anway, we had three menorot burning in the front window. I lit the beautiful blue and white candles that Cali made for me. Megan lit candles in a menorah that she had given me several years ago. Rena lit candles in a small menorah that she uses when she's here. Anyway, it looked quite festive.

Something happened that we're still giggling over. It was hysterical when it happened. So....here's the story....

You all know that my cat Miki is neurotic and pretty much anti-social. But she was sitting next to me in my recliner while we were all chatting and enjoying each other's company. We got on the subject of a girl at Rena's school who is a bully and has picked on Rena several times. Now my granddaughter is a peace-loving person and tries to avoid objectionable people.

Megan talked to Rena's teacher about this girl, and told the teacher she had told Rena to deck the girl the next time she even so much as touched Rena. The teacher said OK. I know this unusual, but the girl is right next to being permanently expelled from the school and the teacher is not too concerned about Rena defending herself.

Anyway, in the course of the discussion, Megan suggest that if the girl even touched Rena, she should scream, fall down, cry, whatever, but make a big noise. Well, when Megan was describing what action Rena should take, she actually SCREAMED. All of a sudden Miki was down at the other end of the hallway. I swear she levitated. I was laughing so hard I couldn't laugh. Megan and Rena were practically rolling on the floor.

Later in the evening, when Megan approached Miki to give her a pet, Miki growled at her and fled back into my bedroom. I'm wondering now if Miki will ever let Megan approach her again. She was beginning to tolerate Megan and even requested a belly-rub. Well, we'll just have to wait and see whether Miki is forgiving.

Tonight, Rena and I lit the candles for the second day of Chanukah--all three menorot, and we turned off the living room lights. It was beautiful to see all those candles burning and reflecting in the windows.

So that's it for tonight. I'm so sorry about Cali's car. I hope the insurance company will come through with replacement value.

Happy Chanukah, Cali and Kid. Something good is bound to happen pretty soon. The Laws of Probability should be working FOR you just any time now.

Love, Joy, Happiness, oh,yes, and Prosperity to all in the coming year.

PS to Cali: Tonight I lit the little Havdallah candle you made for me. Again, thanks for your thoughtfulness!

8 Comments
  • From:
    TraumaMama (Legacy)
    On:
    Sun Dec 21 2003
    Poor Miki! Rena will have to give her a special treat.
    I like Rena's plan for her bully!
    Hi to Megan.
    Love, me
  • From:
    Yetzirah (Legacy)
    On:
    Sun Dec 21 2003
    Of COURSE cats levitate!
    It's one of the reasons they think they are so special and that we are beneath them!

    :-)

    Y.
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Sun Dec 21 2003
    how lovely to have such thoughtful friends

    sez
  • From:
    Kelpie (Legacy)
    On:
    Sun Dec 21 2003
    Dear Chaya,
    I'm sorry to hear that Cali caught a cold and you all missed having the weekend together, that's a real shame. I know how much you both were looking forward to it. I really like Megan's idea for Rena to deal with that wretched bully, but oh poor Miki, though I must admit I had to laugh about it too,
    Take care, love and (((hugs))) Kelpie.
  • From:
    Allimom (Legacy)
    On:
    Sun Dec 21 2003
    it didn't go through.
    Alli
  • From:
    Becoming (Legacy)
    On:
    Sun Dec 21 2003
    So sorry Cali was ill and unable to enjoy spending time with you. The candles sound lovely.

    I had to laugh about the cat too! I can just see it. hehehehehehe

    Happy Chanukka to you and yours.
  • From:
    Becoming (Legacy)
    On:
    Sun Dec 21 2003
    Chanukah - is there one TRUE way of spellling it? It's always eluded me and I've seen it spelled many different ways.
  • From:
    CovertOps (Legacy)
    On:
    Mon Dec 22 2003
    Dear Chaya,
    I am sorry Cali and the Kid couldn't make it. I wish them a speedy recovery from their cold. It would have been great if they could have come in for some tea and latke.
    What a beautiful, meaningful Chanukah you had, my friend. Rena sounds like a most amazingly sensitive and intelligent girl. Megan sounds like me! Oh yes, I'd deck the bully, all right.
    LOL @ Poor Miki! Haa haa haa! I can imagine poor Miki going several feet into the air! Tell me, is she normally this highly strung? Poor Kitty Cat! She's going to need some wine or brandy or something for her nerves!
    Thanks for the laughs! Happy Chanukah!
    Hugs & Love,
    E.L.