Pragmatist
Pragmatist

Moods
Thu Mar 20 2003

It's been a few days since I've written. Why? Well, partly because I couldn't think of anything I wanted to write about.

Purim, a festival with lots of fun and goodies, has come and gone. However, the day preceding the evening that Purim starts is a fast day. It is told in the Book of Esther how she and her maidens fasted for three days and nights. She told her uncle, her adopted father, to tell all the Jews of Shushan to fast with her, because the wicked Haman was plotting to have all the Jews of Persia killed. She very cleverly turned the tables on him.

So, in commemoration, we also fast just before Purim starts. Except that I cannot do it anymore. Fasting leaves me weak, woozy, fuzzy headed, tangle-tongued, and miserable! What am I going to do for Yom Kippur which is a 24 hour fast, and the holiest day of the year? My doctor didn't come right out and say NO, but he did say he'd rather I wouldn't.

So what do I do? Judaism teaches that matters of health take precedence over any law, but how does an orthodox observant Jew reconcile the two? I'll have to find a middle road, I guess.

Moods. I'm well past the age of monthly mood swings. So why am I so down and moody right now? For you who know anything about astrology, maybe you can explain. I was born under the sign of Cancer. And I do have some of the traits of the crab. Hard shelled outside, but tender inside. And, as I understand it, the Moon is the controlling planet for Cancer. Does that explain something? I don't know.

All I know is that I feel like crying right now. My world is good. So what's the problem? I'm generally a happy, easy-going person, so what's going on? The Moon is just barely on the wane, so shouldn't I be full of myself? I am empathetic toward others' feelings, but I don't understand what's going on with myself.

Well, tomorrow is another day. Probably a stormy day, but, still, another day.

Shalom

12 Comments
  • From:
    Yetzirah (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Mar 20 2003
    I think we are sad because of the conflict going on over there...
    Even though I support it fully, it is still depressing that people are going to get hurt and die. Who can rejoice on such a day?
    Especially us, as it says we are not to rejoice even at the death of an enemy.....
    I am pretty weepy myself. Join the club !
  • From:
    JustAnotherBeth (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Mar 20 2003
    in our religion, even the orthodox....get to skip fasting for what i think i was tought are 6 reasons...(remember this is from something i think i heard)
    1)pregnancy
    2)nursing
    3)age is past where it can be healthy(usually between 65-70)
    4)under age 13
    5)medical... (diabetes...etc)

    a variation on the rule...
    lets say chaya is up on the roof (ha ha ha i got this image of you on a roof)anyhow... and lets say you fall and break your leg on shabbos... you CAN drive to the e-room..

    as far as weeping today. I cant coment cause i too ama wrech however maybe now that i know you are not even depressed and atre crying then maybe its jsut the alignment of the moons... ha ha... and maybe donkeys will fly out of my...

    maybe you dont need to be "sad" to be emotional. maybe you are just.. FEELING your life as it comes. tears are good momma.. treature them

    tonight as we start this war... i pray for my relitives in israel. and i pray for peope everywhere...
    (oooh i forgot to write haman on my shoe.. i hope it does not effect the megillah..nah... i think i have had a few too many purims and will again... but since i can play hooky now... for a year or two mroe till my kids notice.. i plan to. in a couple of years i will have jewish stuff coming out of my..... uh... welll... lets jsut say i am taking it SLLLLOOOWWWW)
  • From:
    Becoming (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Mar 20 2003
    The war is enough . . .

    I am filled with anxiety myself and not sleeping. I have now eaten two creme filled chocolates that I was saving for my daughter. NOT on my diet! Arrrgghhhhhhhhhhhhhh

    Not being Jewish, I still feel terrible for those in Israel. A way of life, children being fitted for gas masks and violence all around. Something new here in the states, a way of life for them. Very sad seeing the news coverage of them sealing up their "safe" rooms and stocking up on water and batteries.

    Sad world all the way around, for everyone, no matter how you slice it. I pray for quick conclusion to this war, which will only happen if we are able to get Saddam.

    Me, I'm taking my vitamins and making sure I eat well (no more chocolates, lots of healthy food), get lots of sleep (except for tonight, I still have MSNBC on), lots of prayer and meditation.

    My sister used to say sometimes you just need a good cry. I used to hold it in when I felt that way, now I just let it all out and it can be very cleansing.

    Wish I were close enough to make you some nice warm veggie soup to sip on. *smile*
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Mar 20 2003
    dear pragmatist,
    perhaps you are subconsciously helping to carry the burdens of others sorrows *hugs*
    as for esther, she is definitely a favourite of mine

    re the videos: sorry you're having trouble getting in :(
    once you click on the link, you must immediately click 'sign in' and sign in with my login name and password, then you can progress from there and look at the videos etc. if it keeps coming up with 'folder empty' then you haven't signed in yet.
    thanks for the bedtime story idea, that is a challenging one so i will have to put my thinking cap on ;)
    blessings

    sarah
  • From:
    Becoming (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Mar 21 2003
    Shalom. *smile* I just wrote my entry for tonight and I was feeling pretty dismal myself. Came here, read your latest entry and it made me feel much better. Thanks for being my friend.
  • From:
    FishCreekBride (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Mar 21 2003
    This mood thing must be in the air. I'm a Libra and feeling it too. Hope you're feeling better soon.
  • From:
    Kelpie (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Mar 21 2003
    Hi Chaya:)
    I think the threat of looming war has probably affected us all, in some way or other, in recent times -- I know it has me! Now that it's happening my thoughts are with all the people who will be affected by it, on both sides, and I hope for a short war with as little as possible harm and suffering for all of them. You are blessed with your friends and I'm glad for you that you have such relationships in your life:) Take care and 'bye for now, Kelpie.
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Mar 21 2003
    good friends are truly a blessing :)
  • From:
    Monstergue (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Mar 21 2003
    Ahhhhh, I too, am a crabby little Cancer, lol. We can be moody and sensitive, yes, but that same sensitivity serves us very well in other ways.

    I hope you are feeling a bit better. I think most everyone has been slightly out of whack this week. World events are playing a big role in that, I think....

    Take Care,
    Bobbi
  • From:
    JustAnotherBeth (Legacy)
    On:
    Sat Mar 22 2003
    friends ROCK... I am a scorpio... and by way of my sign I am just in control , fuill of power and passion, and extremely sexual ( who mde me a scorpio)... Maybe it'snot the meds.. maybe i am just moody... maybe i am PMSing... DONT YOU DARE ACCUSE me of that!!!ha ha ha
    now go away!
    Love yu and hope you are having a good shabbos
    Bethy
  • From:
    Becoming (Legacy)
    On:
    Sun Mar 23 2003
    Okay . . . I think that was an Eleanor Roosevelt quote . . . not sure . . . about allowing people to put you down. Anyway, I like it! Just because you are not in the mood to write is no reason for me not to comment, is it? *smile* I do find that when reading something for a second or third time, something new always pops out. I guess whatever is relevent to your own life means the most and is what you connect to? I'm not sure. I'm blathering here. Somebody stop me !!!!

    Well anyway, good morning to you! *smile*
  • From:
    Becoming (Legacy)
    On:
    Sun Mar 23 2003
    On the fasting thing . . . it does sound like a blood sugar thing to me. What if you limit yourself to one thing, like boiled eggs? Make a commitment to eat nothing else during that 24 hours? One thing about God . . . I know He can be kinda tough sometimes but I also think He understands if you are really making the effort.