Pragmatist
Pragmatist

A pretty good day
Fri Sep 26 2003

Had lunch with a friend today for the first time in about a month. Seems we've been unable to get our schedules together. We usually meet on Thursdays, and have been doing so for about five years now, but that was beginning to be a problem, so we tried Tuesday. That worked for a couple times, then we tried Wednesday. That didn't work this week, so we got back to Thursday today. What a mess. Anyway, we enjoyed catching up.

Using pronouns all through an entry can get confusing, so I call her Bisch (short form of her real name) to keep her separate from another friend who has the same first name. OK. Now...Bisch is an artist, mostly oils, but she has done some water colors and pastels. She has sold some of her work, and exhibits in various shows in the area. Bisch has two sons, both married. One of the sons and his wife live on a boat, and they're starting a part-way around the world cruise. When they finally land in Australia, if all goes according to plan, it will be Christmas. They'll moor their boat there, fly home for the holidays, the fly back to Australia to continue their trip. Bisch says they plan to be sailing four years. Sounds exciting, doesn't it? But I ramble.

After we said our goodbyes, I went on out to Roseville to visit my friends there. Friend had visitors yesterday, as I mentioned, and she said today that she was pleased to see them. Surprised me because she keeps insisting she doesn't want visitors. Well, I guess the Rabbi's wife is a little more than just a visitor.

Now I need to call their dentist and see about setting up an appointment. Friend has a great deal of difficulty transferring from her wheelchair, but Husband doesn't have as much of a problem. Need to find out if he can accommodate her after I tell him her difficulty and how frail she is. She lost a filling, and the tooth is beginning to bother her.

Then I have to make an appointment with a notary to notarize their signatures on a legal document their daughter sent me. This is a real problem for their children to attend to such matters. Eldest daughter lives in Southern California. Eldest son lives in Maryland. Next son lives in Oklahoma. Youngest daughter lives in Florida. So, being practically a member of the family, I have been asked to help out in these matters. I guess you could call me the Coordinating Correspondent. Heh!

Anyway, Friend was in a good mood, Husband his usual sweet self, and the visit went quite pleasantly. I came away not quite so unhappy with their situation.

The weather is cooling, but we'll have a couple more days of 90s, then I hope well get back down to the 80s (low!) and begin enjoying fall weather at last.

Rosh Hashanah starts tomorrow evening, so I won't be back here until Monday. The first two days are treated with the same restrictions as the Sabbath. My granddaughter will be with me Sunday, and she will hear the shofar for the first time. It'a hard to describe what I feel when I hear the shofar. It's a call to repentance, a call to glory, a call to the soul. That's the best I can do.

Shalom, and may you all have a sweet and joyous year.

5 Comments
  • From:
    CovertOps (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Sep 26 2003
    I wish you and yours a Blessed Rosh Hoshannah, dear Chaya!
    What a nice time you had with Bisch, and what an interesting family she has! I'd go sailing too if it wouldn't make me seasick. Jake would like that. He loves not being 'anchored' to any one place.
    Your Friend sounds calmer, more at peace, I think. I'm so relieved. I will continue praying for her.
    Have a good weekend, Chaya!
    Lots of love,
    E.L.
  • From:
    Becoming (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Sep 26 2003
    I will miss you during your time away. *smile* Thanks for the good advice on stress relief, I added to my entry just now. All my other problems come from not dealing with the stresses in my life in a healthy way. It's time to fix the flat, as the doc said - not just keep putting air in the tire. If I don't resolve the underlying problems, I will continue to struggle down this path of constantly reacting.

    I am so happy for your friend. It's good that the Rabbi's wife is visiting her, obviously. It must bring her a kind of peace.

    You do so many Mitvah's - you are a true inspiration to me. By our works . . .

    Peace and Love *smile*
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Sat Sep 27 2003
    i'm glad to hear your friend is doing alright and making the most of things, i know how visitors can really sap the strength of sick people, my mother was the same
    wishing you a good and sweet new year

    sez
  • From:
    MagicWhiskey (Legacy)
    On:
    Sun Sep 28 2003
    You'll be missed Chaya.
  • From:
    BillyTeabags (Legacy)
    On:
    Sun Sep 28 2003
    Do you know I don't know what Rosh Hashanah is? I think I will read up on it. Hope you're having a great weekend.