Pragmatist
Pragmatist

Luncheon and Barbershop
Fri Mar 07 2003

Another Leisure League luncheon today. The food was excellent, as usual, but the the best part was the entertainment.

There was a woman playing the piano while everyone was getting signed in and finding friends and tables, and generally milling around. I believe she was a member of the synagogue sponsoring the luncheon. She was great. After lunch, the entertainment was a barbershop quartet. Anyway, the baritone of the quartet sat down at the piano and started playing duets with the lady. One tune was Elmer's Tune. My! how that took me back. And they were really jiving! I asked her later if they had practiced together, and she said no. I would swear, they were sooooo good together, that they had known each other played together forever. That's talent.

Later, I had a chance to talk with her and complimented her on her playing. She said she was 83 (sure didn't look it!) and had started taking lessons when she was 5. Every bit of music she played today was from memory. No sign of sheet music anywhere. She played music from the 30s, 40s, and some show tunes, and was altogether marvelous!

The quartet's songs brought back so many memories. When they sang Sentimental Journey, I almost cried. I remember at the "Farm" we'd gather around the piano in the evening. I played and sang soprano, Aunt N was alto, Uncle E was baritone, and Arch, the hired man/sharecropper was tenor. We sang all those oldies: Peg O My Heart, My Wild Irish Rose, Sweet Adeline, some hymns--oh, lots of the good old melodic songs.

The music today can't hold a candle to the music of my youth. Noise is what I call it. And Rap! spare me!!! The music I loved was singable and danceable. When we sang, there was a discernable melody and the words were understandable. When we danced we didn't jiggle up and down and gyrate (almost pornographically), we danced. Sometimes cheek-to-cheek. Oh my! I know the parents of my day thought jitterbugging was probably immoral, but it sure was fun! The waltz was glamorous and graceful. The tango was about as sexy as we got.

Oh, yes, and when I lived on the "Farm" we went to town (population 50) to the Grange Hall on Saturday night. Potluck, and how those farm women could cook! Then the fiddlers, a drummer, maybe a trumpet player, a piano player came on and we danced reels, jigs, round dances. Oh, such fun. The boys would slip out for a little "nip" and the girls would giggle and the mothers would frown and the fathers would talk farm business. I always loved dancing with the Grandpas because they knew the steps to all the reels and jigs.

The songs that quartet sang today at the luncheon brought back all those memories. What a wonderful day it was.

Shalom.

8 Comments
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Mar 07 2003
    what a wonderful entry!!!!!
    your childhood sounds positively magical, how i would have loved to have grown up in an environment such as that
    oh i fully agree with you on the vulgar gyrations and so forth of modern-day dancing
    how amazing that the 83 yr old pianist needs no sheet music, my hats off to her. i suppose when you've been playing for that long you get to learn the songs off by heart
    *hugs*

    sez

    p.s. i'll have to write more about my nana and poppa another day, maybe tomorrow. it'll be a good test to see just how much i know about them, or at least how much i remember of their life. have a great day!
  • From:
    Kelpie (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Mar 07 2003
    Hello:)
    I've just spent a most pleasurable time reading your diary and will definitely return. I'm an Aussie woman, age 54, and have been writing here at DD since last December too. I just wanted to say hi and tell you how much I've enjoyed meeting you through your journalling,
    Take care and 'bye for now, Kelpie.
  • From:
    JustAnotherBeth (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Mar 07 2003
    i agree about the noise. I grew up around musical playing folk that did that also. My father is a pianist and I am a violinist and people who play by ear really well can usually jump in together and just PLAY and it sounds great. (the cheating thing is that there are only a few 'keys' that people generally play things in when 'jamming') but that is not the point. I am a show tune junkee as well.

    Sounds like you had a good lunch!
    Love,
    Beth
  • From:
    JustAnotherBeth (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Mar 07 2003
    I am so glad to see you getting to know and read other diarists... you are wonderful!!!!
    Love,
    Beth
  • From:
    Yetzirah (Legacy)
    On:
    Sat Mar 08 2003
    Yeah, yeah, it's too late now !
    You said it!
    Although truth to tell, a little rain on the garden would not be a bad thing. So let it rain!
    We will certainly miss it this summer won't we?
    Good Shabbos !
  • From:
    JustAnotherBeth (Legacy)
    On:
    Sat Mar 08 2003
    yay.... !!!!
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Sat Mar 08 2003
    ooo how lovely for you to be living closeish to your daughter and semi-closeis (?) to your grandson :)
  • From:
    Becoming (Legacy)
    On:
    Mon Mar 10 2003
    Life on the farm in your childhood sounds absolutely wonderful. What wonderful memories! *smile*