Pragmatist
Pragmatist

El Paso - getting acquainted
Tue Apr 01 2003

Sorry to make you wait for the next chapter, but.... Okay, okay, no excuses. So here goes.

There is a rule, unwritten, but nevertheless a rule, that when you see another military family moving in, you introduce yourself. We were among the first to move in, but not the first. So, the major and his wife introduced themselves, and invited us for coffee. Then the sergeant and his wife moved in, and we introduced ourselves, and invited them for coffee. And that's the way it went.

Generally speaking, the officers and enlisted don't socialize, but in our small community that custom went by the boards. When someone barbecued, everyone barbecued. The wives got together and talked about stuff that wives talk about. The sergeant and wife had one child, a beautiful little girl, and before we left the area, she was pregnant again, as it turned out, with a boy. The major and his wife had no children, and as far as I know, never did.

We played cards as couples, the men exchanged military gossip (nothing classified, of course). And we were a community. There was a small store maybe a couple miles away, toward the base, where we could run in and get milk or bread, or whatever we needed in an emergency. Usually, there was at least one car available for quick trips or emergencies. The big shopping was done, of course, at the base commissary. Stuff was a lot cheaper there.

Laundry was somewhat of a problem. There was no on-site laundromat, and there was hardly room in the houses for washers and dryers, and certainly no hook-ups for dryers. So, we did a lot of hand laundry. The owner of the property strung up some clotheslines for us. What a change for me! I never handwashed anything except hosiery or maybe a silk blouse. It was a learning time for me.

I mentioned in an earlier diary that the acreage was eventually to be developed into an orchard. The owner had already planted some trees toward the front of the property. Since farmers couldn't depend on rain, the owner---oh, shoot, let's talk about him and give him a name.

Dr. B was originally from Iran. He called it Persia. He was a medical doctor and a mystic. He said he remembered past lives, and that he was once a priest in Babylonia. I had never heard of such things before--past lives, and such--so he fascinated me with his tales. I took them with a rather large portion of salt, but I enjoyed his tales. He was quite a wealthy man, and had given up active medical practice.

Anyway, back to the orchard. Dr. B had dug reservoirs around each tree, and connecting ditches between each tree. He fed the water from a hose connected to a spigot out in the yard. One of the neighbors had a collie-type dog that loved to play in the water, and he'd bite at the water as it was flowing along the ditches to the reservoirs. Very funny to watch. There was another dog, a black mutt, that liked to play in the water, too, so they made a game of it. However, the collie had a mischevous streak in him. He'd let the smaller dog get just a little bit ahead, then he'd land broadside in the reservoir and splash the smaller dog. I'd swear, he would prance away with a big grin on his face. The mutt never did catch on and the game was played almost daily.

Well, that's it for today. Tomorrow...the sandstorm.

Shalom.

4 Comments
  • From:
    Becoming (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Apr 01 2003
    I like the teaser at the end of the story . . . I am hanging on every word. The dogs playing with the water sound so funny! I like that you had a little 'community' there, bending the rules a bit to be able to socialize. Someone just today was talking about how they didn't have any prejudices either accept resentment of the officers on the base. This from my boss who grew up with a father in the military and didn't like the separation of classes. I love hanging clothes out on a line. I'd never done it either, before moving here. What a lovely smell the clothes have when they come off of the line! My husband's mother used to wash clothes in a creek for her family, and he had seven siblings! I like that tradition of greeting the new neighbors too. We have gotten more impersonal and also more cautious these days, at least speaking in my own experience. Can't wait to hear about the sandstorm!

    Oh, thanks for the birthday well wishes. About the bath . . . I go there only in my dreams as we only have a small shower here *smile* I can't wait until we have a real bathroom again. That's one thing about staying in the hotel last month that was a pure pleasure, being able to take a bath.
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Apr 01 2003
    fascinating stuff, pragmatist :))

  • From:
    Ozone (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Apr 02 2003
    Oh the memories of the old days in military housing, and the friends we made. Some of the memories I have are not so good, but I will say that most will never be forgotten and I still have friends from back then. They were true friends and there was nothing phoney about them. It seems much harder today to meet people like that...even with all the political correctness, and the supposed new sensitivity that we all have.
  • From:
    CovertOps (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Apr 30 2003
    LOL! That's a great story about the two dogs! Darn funny! I love it. I'm gonna read the next entry now.
    Love,
    E.L.