Pragmatist
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The Dogs in My Life
Mon May 09 2005

Ummm. Canis domesticus, that is. Not the other kind.

I have photos of me as a baby with my grandmother, and a brindle Boxer, but I don't remember that one.

Grandpa had a very smelly spotted bird dog, and I have a vague recollection of an earlier German Shepherd. But those dogs weren't necessarily in my life.

The first dog I remember as being in close association with me was Sandy. He must have had some Golden Retriever in him, and he was a handsome fellow. He was supposed to be Auntie's dog, but when I went to live with the family, he decided I needed looking after. I went to live with my Aunt and her husband when their child was born. Sandy and I were inseparable from the moment I walked into the house.

One time I thought it would be great to have Sandy pull me on my skates. I attached a leash to his collar, and yelled "Go, Sandy!" Well, Sandy went, but I didn't, except to land rather firmly on my skinny hind end.

The next dog I remember was some kind of terrier that "Uncle" Dick brought home. Chico was his name, but he didn't last very long. After that, no more dogs until after I was married and had my first child.

We were living in Pasadena, Texas; Stephen was five years old and wanted a dog. We found a cute little mutt, and he and Stephen were as Sandy and I were. Stephen would ride his bike around the neighborhood, and Rafferty would pump his little short legs like crazy to keep up. He was named Rafferty because his bark sounded like raff-raff-raff.

When we moved back to California, we (husband) felt that we couldn't take the dog with us, and one of the neighbors was delighted to adopt him. But I don't think Stephen has forgiven ME, about leaving Raff behind.

The next dog came to us when we were settled in North Long Beach, California. We had a nice fenced yard, and Stephen was begging for another dog. We found another one that looked like a clone of Rafferty. So he became Raffertoo (Rafferty #2). By this time Andrew had been added to the family, and Raffertoo was impartial. He followed both boys.

I've never been sure about what happened to Raffertoo, but one day he just up and died. He's buried in the back yard of that North Long Beach home.

The next dog came to us after we had moved to Westminster (Orange County). A neighbor couple had a dog, part Chihuahau and part Dachshunt. What a combination. She had the head of the Chihuahua and the body of the Dachsie. Anyway, they couldn't get her housetrained, so the husband was going to take her to the pound. My husband made noises like "over my dead body!" That's how So-So came into our home. That was her name because she was so-so cute, so-so sweet, so-so darling. (Her original mistress was a little gushy)

We took her in because we had a pet door, and she could go outside any time she needed to do her job. She never had an "accident" in the house.

Later we got a cat and called him BrotherCat, as one of the boys observed that he would be So-So's little brother. Well, it didn't exactly work out that way. I tried putting the kitten in So-So's bed with her, but she wouldn't have any part of that. As soon as I stood up, she nosed that poor little waif out of her bed. No matter how often I tried, how I cajoled, So-So was NOT having that thing in her bed.

So far as we could tell, So-So never came into heat, so we didn't have her spayed. Besides we had a six-foot wall all around the property, and we felt she was safe from any canine romeos. Well, yeah.

She did come into heat one day (when she was about seven years old), and when I found a male dog in our yard, I chased him out with much yelling and throwing of things. But...too late. He'd already gotten to her. He wasn't a big dog, but he was bigger than So-So. I'll never figure how he got over the gate, but as they say, love conquers all.

Eventually, So-So's belly got so big it dragged on the floor, and the poor girl was mizzz-er-able! Gentle tummy rubs brought such a look of thanks and pleasure in her eyes, one could almost hear her sigh. Finally she had six pups, but only one lived. And that one was a combination of her mother and father. Another strange looking dog that Andrew dubbed Elroy. Somehow that seemed a fitting name.

So-So finally died of old age, and she's buried in the backyard of the Westminster home.

Elroy loved to go riding in the car, and one day she slipped into the car when I wasn't looking. As I was already on the way when I discovered her, I decided, Oh, well, let her ride. I went into the bank and thought I'd be in and out in a jiffy, but it was not to be. Someone either took her from the car, or she managed to squeeze out one of the partially open windows and followed someone home.

I tried for days to find her, but no one ever answered an ad, and she never showed up in any of the shelters in the county. It was a sad day, and I felt terrible! I still feel a little sad when I remember that it was my fault that Elroy was lost. She was such a character!!!

Since then no dogs. Just cats. But stay tuned for the saga of Damndog. She deserves a few pages all to herself.

Shalom

5 Comments
  • From:
    MissTick (Legacy)
    On:
    Mon May 09 2005
    thank you for your comment. It feels that the least I could do - to remember and to share the memory. It upsets me - the way how media treates WWII nowadays - all the lessons have been forgotten...all that bothers people now - who was "the best" who was "right" and who was "wrong"...And then Bush goes and lectures Russia about "how bad it was - to invade Baltic's states after liberating them from Nazi..." makes me wanna puke...I intentionally didn't want to raise these issues in my entry dedicated to those who were just doing what they thought was damn right -protecting their land from invaders and those who helped them in it...but I should stop now, really [~sighs], you don't want to get me started! :-) LOL...anyway...
    The song has been written in the beginning of 1942 and became one of the front's favourites. It is just a soldier thinking of his sweetheart in between the battles...the singer name is - Mark Bernes and the record is the original from those days...I do like it very much - it's a simple and sweet song, not patriotic, not propaganda, just a song about love...I've attempted to translate it in my dd...
  • From:
    CovertOps (Legacy)
    On:
    Mon May 09 2005
    Such wonderful, touching doggie and kitty stories, Chaya. Thank you so much for sharing.

    I shall definitely be anticipating the story of Damndog. LOL, what a name!

    As for Rafferty, your earlier entries on him left such a huge impression on me that when I received a stuffed toy Shar Pei dog for my 25th birthday, I named him Rafferty because it sounds like such a lovely doggy name. Plus, I like Gerry Rafferty's 'Stuck In The Middle'.

    P/S: You can get vegetarian hotdogs, you know.

    Love,
    E.L.
  • From:
    Dustbunny3 (Legacy)
    On:
    Mon May 09 2005
    I love both Cats and Dogs but a good dog is a friend for life however you are just tolerated by a cat. I admire the custom's of your faith but a meat man I will always be.
  • From:
    Dustbunny3 (Legacy)
    On:
    Mon May 09 2005
    Your Dog,s in your life uncovered a almost forgotten memory in my Sandbox. We had Lassie a large throbred Airedale when I was a child. The skate story brought to life a thrill of being a slay ride. My Grampa had a dog sled harness for pulling about three large milk cans he Dad had brought with him from Germany. I guess my Great grand dad delivered mild that way in town . A sled in winter and a cart in summer. I had a Uncle who was was a harness and shoe repir special man. Uncle Ralph took the old harness and made a super new one as Grampa gave me the old one . Oh Boy lassie loved to run like the wind pulling me around . I think I was about 7 at the time. She was so strong and without doubt the smartest of dogs in my life . All went well
    and all the kids in the neighborhood got rides till one day a cat ran across the street and the race was on. !!! up over curbs down the sidewalks and then came a large HEDGE ROW . The dog made and the sled but I was left plastered in the hedge. Dazed and scratched but came alive when a big wet toung was licking my wounds.
    Lassie was so protective of family no pankind or sibling fights were allowed. When ever she was sent to the basement we knew one of us was in trouble and a whipping was about to take place.
  • From:
    Dreamerbooks2003 (Legacy)
    On:
    Mon May 09 2005
    I love your doggie tails.
    Hahaha
    I know how much a part of our homes they are.. I am not quite ready for another one yet..
    I am, and I'm not.
    My Daughter's pit bull is expecting a litter of lab-pit pups. My daughter is 'guilting' everyone to take one of the pups. But not me! And I threatened her if she even mentions it to Kody.
    Thanx for the comment.. Yeah I agree with you .. the matching dresses are the touch that really gets me too! Sweet Konni. Had the pics in a frame and separate ones for my wallet. She is such a good Mom. I don't know what she will do 10 yrs down the road when they are all teenagers.. Oh my goodness, I hope she has a good man to help her! I really like Bobby. And he is sure polite and sweet to all of them. I pray it works out for them.

    I think tomorrow or next day.. I'll post that one envelope
    Hope your week is a wonderful one
    Hugs
    peg