Pragmatist
Pragmatist

60 Years!
Sun Nov 30 2003

A couple in the congregation celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary today. Sixty years! Wow! And in honor of that achievement, they also sponsored the kiddush after the service. Their children and grandchildren all were there, and I noted that they will be great-grandparents within a few months, too.

Many of their friends were there also. They all spoke of the kindness of Jerry and Ellie, especially Ellie, and how much they've done for the Jewish community, individually and the community as a whole.

The grandchildren wrote a very clever poem about how boy and girl met in New York, how they came to California, how they worked together to establish a business, and some funny details of their life together. Both Ellie and Jerry had to weigh in with some funny stories that told even more about the incidents related in the grandchildrens' poem.

There was lots of good food, lots of good cheer, and too many people for our small dining area in the winter. When the weather is nice, tables are set up outdoors under the trees, and there's plenty of room.

I had a nice treat before the service. As I walked into the sanctuary, I saw a friend who has moved his permanent residence to Israel. He's back for only a short time, but we had time for a really good visit before the service started. A really nice man, and our congregation is poorer for his having moved.

I had to leave the the luncheon before all the festivities were over, and probably missed out on dessert. I have a problem with crowds, and even though I was sitting at a table at the edge of the crowd, I was still getting unsettled. I was able to wish Ellie many more years of happiness before I left. She's a nice lady.

It was a good day.

Shalom

5 Comments
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Sun Nov 30 2003
    what a wonderful reason to celebrate :)
    speaking of which, my nana and poppa will be celebrating their 60th wedding anniversary in 2 weekends time, an event i'm very much looking forward to

    sez

    re: new years resolutions are something i've never indulged in as i believe, like you, that every day is an opportunity to change for His mercies are new every morning :)
    as for my 'twin', you've got me all curious now!
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Sun Nov 30 2003
    i'm not sure which mountain it is, thats a good question! you're right about the first cloud formation looking downright scary, almost tornado-like

    sez
  • From:
    Kelpie (Legacy)
    On:
    Mon Dec 01 2003
    Hi Chaya and G'day too *smile*
    I'm glad that you had such a happy day and got to catch up with your old friend too. What a nice surprise for you to see him there. Also pleased for you that you had a nice time with your daughter on Thanksgiving day. I'm looking forward to a chat with you sometime soon,
    Take care, love and (((hugs))) Kelpie.
  • From:
    CovertOps (Legacy)
    On:
    Mon Dec 01 2003
    Wow! 60 years! Congratulations Jerry and Ellie! What an acheivement!
    You are blessed with such wonderful friends, Chaya!
    And thanks for the enlightenment on the Jewish dowry system. I think it is fair that the bride receives money or jewelry as a 'nest egg', but find it preposterous that her parents can demand all sorts of lavish and mostly useless presents, as some Asian families still do!
    Love & Hugs,
    E.L.
  • From:
    Fairywishes (Legacy)
    On:
    Mon Dec 01 2003
    It sounds like you had a lovely day, wow I cannot imagine being married for sixty years, what an achievement.


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