Pragmatist
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Why shatter the glass....
Tue Dec 14 2004

I have been asked to explain why a glass is shattered at a wedding. I've heard a couple different reasons, but following is a direct quote from How to Run a Traditional Jewish Household, by Blu Greenberg.

"The [wedding] ceremony is over. But before we can all shout out mazel tov to the new couple and their families, we must intrude reality and memory for an instant. In the last of the seven blessings, we asked God to restore the sounds of joy and gladness, the sounds of bride and groom to Zion and Jerusalem. It has reminded us that the Temple was destroyed, that the world is not yet wholly redeemed, that our own happiness cannot be complete until Zion and Jerusalem are secure. As a symbol of that ancient shattering and the as-yet unredeemed world, a glass is wrapped in a napkin and placed on the floor where the groom shatters it with a well placed stomp.

"There. We have remembered and it is done! Now, our joy returns. Everyone calls out with full voice, 'Mazel tov! Mazel tov'!"

I have also heard that it signifies the "breaking away" from the parents' home, and the beginning of the establishment of the home of the bride and groom. However, in many Orthodox families the couple lives with one of the parental families until the groom completes his Torah studies. Or until secular education is completed and the couple can be self-supporting.

So there you have it: the reason for shattering the glass at a wedding.

Shalom

5 Comments
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Dec 14 2004
    thankyou dear chaya! i know this entry was for my benefit ;)

    sez
  • From:
    Idioglossia (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Dec 14 2004
    how fascinating... i did not know this earlier
    sorry about the notifies :( i have been receiving complaints from all my readers and in turn driving the support team mad, hopefully something will be done this time (have complained again)

    your entries are most edifying... this is a culture i am not very familiar with

    well have a nice day my friend
    idioglossia
  • From:
    CovertOps (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Dec 14 2004
    Dear Chaya,

    I read about this one on the Internet, when I was reading up on Judaism.

    This is really fascinating stuff.

    Thank you for sharing, and thank you once again for your kind words for my poor Murphy.

    Lots of Love,
    E.L.
  • From:
    Calichef (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Dec 14 2004
    Although this is likely incorrect, I was once told that on a more personal level it symbolizes the fragile nature of romantic relationships and should remind the couple to take care to protect what they have in each other. Incorrect or not, I like this explanation.
    Love,
    ~Cali
  • From:
    Bubbles1956 (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Dec 15 2004
    I did not know this, I like learning new things. I personally like the idea of the breaking away from the parents......it sure fits, lol.
    Thank you.

    Sheryl