Pragmatist
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Purim
Tue Mar 14 2006


The festival of Purim is a joyous celebration.  For the full story, read the Book of Esther.  Background: an evil man name of Haman, one of King of Persia's courtiers, hated the Jews because one man, Mordechai, would not bow to him.  He plotted to have all the Jews in the kingdom wiped out.  Queen Esther, through information from her uncle and adoptive father, Mordechai, was able to stop the plot and punish Haman.  Punish.  Putting it mildly.  He was executed by the same means he plotted to have Mordechai executed.


This story is one of many about Jews' being saved from persecution and annihilation.  It is celebrated by the reading of the Megillah (Book of Esther) in the synagogue.  During the reading, at the every mention of Haman, the crowd erupts with boos, stamping feet, groggers (noise makers)--noise to drown out the sound of his name.


Children especially come in costume, and many adults do too.  After the reading of the Megillah, we partake of a buffet of traditional Purim foods, and the children strut their costumes.  There was a magician, too, to entertain the children, but I find delight in works of magic.  There's still a part of me that is childlike in wonder.


We eat Hamentashen, a three-cornered pastry filled with pureed fruit. Drink wine and generally indulge in undignified merrymaking.


I had to come home before the partying was over.  My ears were screaming for mercy from all the noise.  The entertainers and leaders of fun were using microphones, much amplified, and my poor eardrums rebelled. 


I don't know how long the partying continued, but I imagine the neighbors in the apartments that back up to the synagogue property were very happy when people finally went home.


Had a wonderful visit with a newly married friend and her husband.  Her I've known a number of years.  Him I've known only since she introduced him as her betrothed several months ago.  KK was utterly fascinated by him.  I'm sure he remembered from the first time they visited me together. 


J & R were married in Washington State, on the coast near Anacortes, with his family in attendance.  It was a rather non-traditional Jewish wedding, but kosher nonetheless.  Later they went to Vienna to celebrate with her family there.  They brought a computer disk with pictures of the wedding, so I was able to participate vicariously in their wedding.  J said she had on two pair of thermals under her wedding dress, and was still cold.  R had only one pair of thermals on, and he said he was freezing!!  I can testify that it can get cold there!! They came a couple hours before the services at the synagogue, and they caught me up on their doings since J introduced R to me.  Next time we visit, they'll have pictures of their stay in Vienna.


I told my friends I had to be a party-pooper, but to come back to my place when they'd had their fill of partying.  Which they did.  And stayed another couple hours.  It was SO good!  R has a farm a few miles from here, and they'll be spending their time between Sacramento and the farm until planting time comes.  I have an invitation to visit.  But I hope that doesn't include the expectation of digging and planting. 


Interestingly enough, they met at the Farmers Market where J has been volunteering for probably 15 years, and R has been bringing produce for about 10 years.  They never took notice of each other until fairly recently.  Don't even remember having seen each other until their first recognizable meeting.  But...as our Rabbi says "In Hashem's time; not ours."


Marriage has been good for J.  She glows.   She's always been stick-thin, but she's put on weight.  It looks good on her.  R says he's gained weight, too, and they both paint to their middles.  J is, I'd guess, 5 feet 8 inches tall, and she says she's all the way up to 118 pounds.  Wow!


It was a good day.  I participated in a joyous celebration and had several hours of catch-up time with friends.  Yes, it was a good day.


Shalom

8 Comments
  • From:
    Yetzirah (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Mar 15 2006
    I coulda done without the microphones too....
    Oy!

    The magician was great! Loved every minute of it.

    ;-)
  • From:
    Dustbunny3 (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Mar 15 2006
    Every now and then we are blessed with a small space in time that is special. So glad you were there.
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Mar 15 2006
    i thoroughly enjoy happy endings like that one
  • From:
    Thubten (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Mar 16 2006
    Shalom, Chaya!

    Thanks for visiting my diary.
    It does sound like you had a joyful Purim (apart from the noise that is). Nice that your friends dropped in afterwards.

    I was lucky enough to get some treats from my friend Sam's shalach manos. He is in hospital. The children at Mariah college packed everyone at Wolper a lovely basket. Unfortunately Sam can't eat a lot of things so he gave it aawy. Under the biscuits and lollies in the basket was a drawing by a very little girl called Talia, of a rainbow, with the words "HAPPY-PURIM" written underneath the arch.

    Wow, I just realised how 'handsome' your diary is looking! Congratulations!
    That's all for now...
    Shalom,
    Jenny
  • From:
    Dananarama (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Mar 16 2006
    Well...I have to say you DO love words....even moreso than I! ha ha :o)

    You'll have to forgive me I am not very well read when it comes to jewish traditions. It does sound like a joyous occasion though. I hope you enjoyed the celebrations! :o)
  • From:
    CovertOps (Legacy)
    On:
    Sat Mar 18 2006
    Ah! Thank you for teaching me about your religion and culture, Chaya! I am always enriched by the knowledge you impart!

    I'd like to celebrate Purim with you too one day. Anything which involves loud merrymaking is a happy thing by Chinese standards.

    I am so happy to read that you had a great time.

    I wonder if KK would be utterly fascinated by me, too.

    Love,
    E.L.
  • From:
    Dreamerbooks2003 (Legacy)
    On:
    Sat Mar 18 2006
    congratulations to the good time, even though you had to leave before you would have liked
    and congrats to the happy couple.. so rare these days..
    I had just read about that same story is the book
    by Bruce Feiler; Where G-d Was Born.. it is an interesting & easy read.. He is Jewish.. through the reformed type.. and writes about all three mono-religions... Jewish, Christianity, and Muslim..
    so.. it stuck me when you wrote in your journal about it..
    Hope you didn't over do yourself.. I am very fatigued these days.. so I totally relate
    Best wishes for a wonderful day
    peg
  • From:
    Dreamerbooks2003 (Legacy)
    On:
    Sat Mar 18 2006
    congratulations to the good time, even though you had to leave before you would have liked
    and congrats to the happy couple.. so rare these days..
    I had just read about that same story is the book
    by Bruce Feiler; Where G-d Was Born.. it is an interesting & easy read.. He is Jewish.. through the reformed type.. and writes about all three mono-religions... Jewish, Christianity, and Muslim..
    so.. it stuck me when you wrote in your journal about it..
    Hope you didn't over do yourself.. I am very fatigued these days.. so I totally relate
    Best wishes for a wonderful day
    peg