Pragmatist
Pragmatist

Halloween
Tue Nov 02 2004

I went to my daughter's house last evening to hand out goodies. She wanted to go out with her daughter trick-r-treating. This will most likely be Rena's last year, since she just turned 13. I think that's a reasonable cut-off date.

There weren't as many kids as I thought there would be, considering this is a residental neighborhood, and the nearby elementary school is well populated. Some of the kids were mere babies, and costumed so cute. The cutest ones got a double portion of treat. Some pretty ghoulish costumes too.

Which brings me to reminiscing about Halloween when I was growing up. We did a little bit ot trick-r-treating, but mostly we got together at community or neighborhood parties.

Anybody remember dunking for apples? You could darn near drown yourself trying to snag an apple floating in a tub of water. No hands allowed. There were games, taffy pulls (remember those?), some pairing off, too, but we were pretty closely chaperoned.

Chaperoned. That was the whole idea of the neighborhood or community parties. Kids had easy access to alcohol in those days, and snitching from the parents' cigarette supply was not unknown. Of course, small towns were more inclined, I think, to have community gatherings. There's a greater sense of community when you know your neighbors, the mailman is a personal friend, you know all the businessmen by their first names.

A lot of adult activities took place in private homes, and kids went along because the host/hostess had kids the same age. Babysitting was almost unheard of.

And so with Halloween. The churches had their own parties, and no one took exception to witch costumes. Parents got together and helped each other with their kids' costumes. I don't remember seeing ready-made costumes in the stores.

Oh, yes, and we never had to worry about razor blades stuck in apples, or poisoned candy. Homemade cookies were accepted without question, but of course, they were wrapped in waxed paper, if only for the sake of neatness.

There were a lot of things we didn't have then--technological advances we take for granted now. But we were a lot safer, too.

Shalom

7 Comments
  • From:
    Dreamerbooks2003 (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Nov 02 2004
    Yes, your Halloween memories sound much like mine. Although I didn't grow up in a small town setting.. we did go with parents to parties and always my parents friends had kids my and my brothers age. We even went on camping and sledding trips with same.. It was a good life.. . We used to trick-r-tread this one ladies house every year cuz she made candy apples.. That would be a no-no in today's fear based world..
    Some things are just gone.. Innocence is one of them - I guess
    ={
    PEG
  • From:
    Dustbunny3 (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Nov 02 2004
    Funny we had more fun on Beggers Nite.
    (I am here to Beg a Bite so I won't be back tomorrow Nite) It was close to blackmail but fun.
    Soaped a lot of windows,rattled windows with the spool& thread . Best treat was carmel popcorn balls. Best part was cleaning soaped windows and getting paid like a dime a window. No real harm was allowed but it was scary as some home owners got thier kicks laying in wait and scare the tar out of you.
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Nov 02 2004
    them were the days eh. i love reminiscing, especially about my days growing up on the farm and all the things we used to do. halloween isn't a big holiday here and i've never celebrated it. its weird but i remember hearing somewhere about that razor blade in the apple thing and how its in fact an urban legend as opposed to based on anything close to fact. somebody sometime gave statistics for how many children were harmed from trick or treating, it was only a very small number and they were all harmed by people they knew i.e. family members

    as for moving out here to nz, you might want to check this out to see where you stand. you never know

    http://www.immigration.co.nz/

    *hugs* and blessings chaya

    sez
  • From:
    Monstergue (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Nov 02 2004
    I remember neighborhood parties, bobbing for apples and homemade popcorn balls *rolls eyes in sheer delight*

    I didn't even hand out candy this year. It isn't any fun anymore. I don't know the kids as they are brought in by the truck loads from other neighborhoods. A lot of them are rude at best and I just didn't feel the need for the hassle. *sigh*

    Maybe next year I will have a costume party the weekend before Hallowe'en. We shall see......
  • From:
    AQuietEvening (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Nov 03 2004
    ahh, yes...memories.. I did have fun going to carnivals and such but my mother never let us go trick or treating...of course I took great pleasure in allowing my son to trick or treat.

    But this year was the best!! We did trunk or treating at the church. There were a few games for the kids, some of us decorated our cars and trunks and we got to see all the church kids dressed in costumes... for a little while I felt like we went back in time to those fun things you described. Hopefully it will now become an annual event at church!!

    ~QE
  • From:
    Allimom (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Nov 04 2004
    I don't know about a crown in heaven, but I think I've earned some chocolate! There are a couple Almond Joy bars in the kids stash that have my name on them!
    Alli
  • From:
    Sweetsummerbreeze (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Nov 04 2004
    Thirteen seems to be a reasonable age for a kids last go at trick or treating. I believe that was my last time no I get to enjoy it through my kids.