Pragmatist
Pragmatist

Progress is being made
Fri Apr 30 2010


I have a back bedroom with a sign on the closed door: ENTER AT YOUR OWN RISK. With a skull and crossbones symbol below. Actually, had is the more appropriate verb at this point.  Following relates the two salient reasons for entering the room:



My granddaughter, Rena, is coming to visit in June, and I have no place to bed her. Except. I could get that room cleared out. Mostly junk in there, anyway.



Friend Joan has a piece of furniture I want in that room, but there's no way to get it from her carport into my back room. And in no place other than the back room do I want it.



So.



Joan made a date with me to get started. There were some things in there that I couldn't move by myself. And, truth to tell, I needed a huge push actually to get in there and get started. Just looking at the room gave me an overwhelmed "I can't do this" feeling. And a sort of "I don't want to" feeling.



So Joan hauls stuff out to the dumpster or recycle bin of stuff I decide Must Go. I'll admit that it's hard to let go of stuff when you have the Hoarder Syndrome. It may be junk, but it's my junk. With Joan cracking the whip and demanding a Keep, Recycle or Pure Trash decision, it has become easier.



However, we had to clear a trail to the upholstered chair in the room so I could sit. Standing for any length of time, say 5 minutes or so, is murder on my back. I was able to sit and sort for a whole hour once that chair became available.



I have a chair and footstool in the living room that I want to put in the back room. Eventually there'll be a futon for sitting and/or sleeping. I'll need to get a table lamp for the room, but Goodwill is up the street a couple blocks. Always a good place to start looking for something. Until I can afford a futon, a friend has offered her blow-up bed. Maybe I'll look for that at Goodwill, also.



I thought about posting Before and After pictures, but I'm afraid my readers would be shocked into not reading me any more.



Next on the Agenda: Going through the books and recycling. Books are even harder for me to hand off. I love my books. Getting rid of a book is like tearing a piece of skin off me. But there are books that I'll never pick up again. Reading once was enough. But, dernit, it has printing on those pages, lovely words on those pages, and y'all know how much I love words.



Oh, yes, and there are books that need to be sent back to their original owners.



Decisions, decisions.



Decided there was nothing in the larder that I wanted to cook for dinner last night. So I went to my favorite Chinese place. Didn't realize how much I hurt and how tired I was until I sat down and waited for my take-out dinner. I just wanted to put my head down on the table and go to sleep. Then when the packaged dinner arrived, I discovered that I really-really hurt when I stood up. Hobbled out to the car. When I got home, I didn't even bother to set out the food on a plate. Just ate from the cartons.



There's enough food left for two or three more meals. The chow mein is best when it's fresh, but the fli oops fried rice is good any time.



 



Bless


6 Comments
  • From:
    Welshamethyst (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Apr 30 2010
    Oh, don't I know what you mean about the books. It kills me to let them go but I made the leap last spring and took twelve cartons to the library. I did go through all the books and kept the Kinsey Milhone and Alex Cross series. The rest went. Ouch but at least they aren't taking up all that space in my garage anymore.

    I'll never forget one particular fire job where it took 11 of us to clear one bedroom because we had to do a relay line down the hallway because there was only room for one person in the bedroom itself so you really shouldn't feel too bad about your guest room

    Hugs
  • From:
    Dreamerbooks2003 (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Apr 30 2010
    I need your Joan to crack the wipe at me.. I have a room and several closets I want to go through..
    Health is not going to improve.. in fact latest doctor isn't giving me any hope..
    what little energy I do have, i try to help Dad with Mom. our family is having many health related issues and whoa boy.. it is so fun!! (sarcastic)
    Good luck with your project. i totally understand about "your Junk" .. I have the same problem.. and with over 1000 books. probably way over that many.. it is just crazy!! Also have issues with dust.. behind computer desk.. which I can't move.. etc.. it never ends.. oh this conversation is making me fatigued!!!
    don't make yourself sick and sore. pace yourself!! please!!!
  • From:
    Mamallama (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Apr 30 2010
    I am so proud of you. That is never an easy thing to do.
    I used to keep every book I read until I moved here and realized while I was packing that there are more books in print that I will ever be able to read in my lifetime, so why was I wasting time re-reading the same ones? The classics are certainly worth it as well as many others, but really. I could be missing an even better one!!
    Enough said.
    Good advice was given...pace yourself.
    Hugs, Tiggs
  • From:
    404Error (Legacy)
    On:
    Sat May 01 2010
    Way to go! I know how hard it is to get anything done when you can only stand a few minutes at a time, so extra pats on the back for that!
  • From:
    DancingButterfly (Legacy)
    On:
    Sat May 01 2010
    Good on you!
    I know what will motivate you.
    Toss anything you don't want anyone to know you had when you were alive when you leave this world!
  • From:
    Welshamethyst (Legacy)
    On:
    Mon May 03 2010
    RYC: yes, he's still got to do the gallon of laxative Thursday night in addition to the liquid diet. That should just be sooooo much fun!