Pragmatist
Pragmatist

A very fine evening
Fri Feb 04 2005

Rabbi Laibl Wolf from Australia graced our little synagogue this evening. He's a world renowned speaker and Kabbalist. And thoroughly entertaining. Not a ho-hum moment in the whole two hours. He's a lawyer, psychiatrist and rabbi.

His opening line, always, is "How many of you are with me here for the first time?" He surveys the crowd. Then asks "How come?" And we laugh.

Some quotes and ideas gleaned:

Words are a limited expression of the thought within.

Anger is the attempt to overpower the other to alleviate our own fears.

There are six or seven words in Hebrew that are translated as "anger" into English. And they don't mean anger at all. English doesn't have an equivalent word for the emotion expressed by the Hebrew word(s).

WHAT IS INNER BALANCE

o When the wisdom of the mind guides the energy of the heart.

o And the words and behavior reveal the soul rather than the camouflaged fear.

When someone is angry, threatening, misbehaving, giving offense, etc.; when we're not getting what we want, or getting what we don't want, don't react with anger. Just step back and ask yourself "I wonder what this means?" He guarantees, with this response to a situation, you'll never get angry.

I asked him What, if not anger, is the emotion we should be expressing when we are faced with cruelty, injustice, and the like. He said "Empathy." And a desire fix what we perceive to be wrong.

Oh, so much more.

I'd have to be totally incapacitated to miss his lectures when he's here.

I bought one of his CDs, and hope to be able to collect the rest of the series over time.

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After yesterday's physical therapy, I thought I might not have to go again today. But I did. Woke up sore, stiff, achy. So I kept the appointment, and made two for next week. The therapist said I'd come twice a week, probably for 4 to 6 weeks. Well, at least he expects an end to the need for treatment.

Also, last night when I was crocheting, my left arm was becoming painful. I asked the therapist if there was a connection and said there was. So now I have to prop my arm on a pillow or the arm of the chair to support it. I tried that this evening, earlier, and there were no twinges. So I guess I don't have to give up my favorite handcraft.

The Leisure League luncheon was delicious today, and the entertainment was great! A group of young performers did dance and song numbers from "Chicago" and the drummer gave us a drum concert. He's GOOD. I love drumming. From the most primitive to the exotic to the likes of Gene Krupa.

An altogether satisfying day.

Shalom

9 Comments
  • From:
    Sweetsummerbreeze (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Feb 04 2005
    Glad to hear your evening went well.
  • From:
    AussieDeafMan (Legacy)
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    Fri Feb 04 2005
    I was thinking what a wonderful gift to others it is to allow them to travel through all of this with you.
    I wonder if other people recognise it is such, as I do?
    I've got two good arms and I still couldn't crochet *rolls eyes*
    _|m/ ADM
  • From:
    CovertOps (Legacy)
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    Fri Feb 04 2005
    Ouch! I'm sorry the pain still hasn't completely gone away. I want it to be gone. Double Quick. And never come back. Same goes for Arthur Itis.

    Wise words from a great rabbi! I am sure everyone enjoyed his presentation. A tasteful sense of humor is so rare these days!

    What a great time you had at the luncheon! I love musicals and would love to have been there with you watching snippets of Chicago!

    I had no idea you were such a fan of drum and percussion music! A few of my friends are percussionists. I can bang out only one tune on tabletops and hard surfaces -- the chinese lion dance tune! LOL!

    Love,
    E.L.
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    Dustbunny3 (Legacy)
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    Fri Feb 04 2005
    It is so rewarding to listen to a speaker who can open one's mind much like a craftsman finishing a rough piece of wood into a smooth work of beauty.
    You just want to look and admire it but not full filled till you can feel it's smooth surface and warmth.
    Carl Sagen effects me the same way.
    In our dating years Ms Daisy and I made the Ball room many time dancing to the BIG BANDS.
    Twice we went to dance the night away to the Dorsey Band and Gene Krupa would have spotlight
    and it placed the dance floor into a trance that was scary with everyone stone still .
  • From:
    Dreamerbooks2003 (Legacy)
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    Fri Feb 04 2005
    What wonderful insight on anger..
    And the reaction to injustice. Wow
    I am going to try that.. what is this about. or what does this mean?
    It has to be better than loosing my mind

    At therapy yesterday the therapist did tell GS to be gentle with me that during a quit smoking it is justifiable homicide..
    I laughed.. :)
    Not quite that bad.. And getting easier all the time
    Hugs
    p
  • From:
    Fairywishes (Legacy)
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    Fri Feb 04 2005
    he sounds great. To be honest, it has given me quite a lot to think about about myself. Quite often I find myself angry with situations, but really what does this mean for me. And when I see others like this to stand back and ask why is excellent therapy. And "Anger is the attempt to overpower the other to alleviate our own fears" has really hit a nerve with me - I often react in anger and try to overpower (especially or mostly DH) because I think of my childhood problems I am actually protecting myself from the fear.

    I hope you don't mind but i would like to put that in my diary.

    love to you, hope the pain gets better and the aches.

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  • From:
    Ichandra (Legacy)
    On:
    Sat Feb 05 2005
    hi chaya what a beautiful presentation
    yes I love it when someone is angry threatening step back and say what does it mean
    yes love means understanding

    take care of that injury
    sending healing thoughts
    ichandra
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Sat Feb 05 2005
    anger is definitely one of those hard to control emotions in all of us, i would very much like to have more control over the way i react to certain situations

    sez
  • From:
    Allimom (Legacy)
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    Sun Feb 06 2005
    RYC: You really have your hands full with your family and your school work. Don't you get weary to the bone sometimes?

    Every day. Days like today it goes beyond exhausted, but as I'm the only adult here right now I have to ignore that and do my best not to act out the tired grumpy monster I feel inside me. If I were much of a drinker, I suppose drinking heavily might help. But I don't think 2 or 3 glasses of wine a year qualifies me as much of a drinker!
    Alli