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Keith
Sat Feb 25 2006

Keith was the wunderkind of all the cousins. I was the eldest of the grandchildren, and Keith was next in age to me. While Keith lived on The Farm (see entry 18 Feb), and I lived in town, we did have our times together. Mom (see entry 5 Feb) was the family's babysitter, so the cousins had time to get acquainted with each other even though we lived in different cities or different parts of the county. 

Besides, during summer vacations, we took turns visiting the various aunts and uncles. We were a fairly close-knit extended family.


Keith was sweet-natured, but full of fun, too. Good looking, and better looking as he got older. In high school he was very popular with the girls, but I don't remember his being serious about anyone. Marian would know more about that as they went to the same high school. (I completed high school elsewhere, and I may write something about that at another time). Anyway...to continue.


I don't want anyone to think that Keith was a bore, or a "goody two-shoes" because I extol his virtues. He was anything but. He had his fun, and it wasn't always exactly the "good boy" fun. His britches might have been burned a couple times. But he was, basically, a good person.


As I said, Keith was the wunderkind. His peers, especially the girls, liked him, his teachers liked him, all the relatives thought him wonderful. He was a good student and a good athlete. He played football, and was good enough to have a career in the Army. That takes an explanation, I think.


When Keith enlisted in the Army, he was a big, strapping farm boy. Fodder for the Infantry. Instead, because of his athletic prowess, he was assigned to a special unit -- I think it was called Special Services, but I'm not sure that's the right term -- that was part of the military's version of the USO. Talented servicemen were sent wherever American troops were to entertain and shore up the morale of personnel overseas. Keith ended up in the Army's football team. He was in Japan for awhile and sent back some interesting letters and brought home some artwork and trinkets.


Aunt Nettie many, many years later still had some teacups Keith had sent home from Japan.


There's an old folk saying that the good die young. In this case it was true.


This has been so long ago that my memory may be faulty (Marian will correct me if I disremember). I believe Keith was still in the Army when it was discovered that he had Hodgkin's Disease. It's highly curable disease now, but then it was a death sentence. And it was for Keith. He was 26 years old when he died.


I hate to end this on such a sad note, and I have to believe that his life's purpose on this earth had been served. In Ecclesiastes 3:1-2 it says:



1. Everything has its season, and there is time for everything under the heaven:


2. A time to be born and a time to die:...



And Keith lived his life well and honorably. And when his time came, he knew he was being called Home and rewarded for living a Godly life.


Shalom


10 Comments
  • From:
    Yetzirah (Legacy)
    On:
    Sun Feb 26 2006
    You know I was just thinking about something along these lines last night. We are not used to losing people when they are young any more. Oh it happens. But not like it used to. . .
  • From:
    Dustbunny3 (Legacy)
    On:
    Sun Feb 26 2006
    Keith left a lasting impression didn't he. Tis true and bugs me to lose a friend and truly good person, while some drug, booze and other sorry people just seem to go on living. Our family and extended family are so spread out today it makes the close bonding of yesterday a challange to just keep up a address book. I stumbled across a
    cemetary that was on our hunting lease in ARK. I spent a couple hours looking at carved wood head markers and it shook me so of the 6 month to 3 year old children and many Civil war Vets under 25 that were laid to rest. Hosptials and medical help were few and far apart and we seem to have a pill for everything today.
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Sun Feb 26 2006
    what a great man keith was, 26 is far too young to die

    sez
  • From:
    CovertOps (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Feb 28 2006
    Ohhh.... your story started off so beautifully but ended on such a terribly sad note! Thank you for sharing a brief biography of your special cousin Keith with us. It is too tragic... of all the things to die of... and so young... it must have broken his parents' hearts.... heck, it must have broken everyone's hearts.

    Take care.

    Love,
    E.L.
  • From:
    Dreamerbooks2003 (Legacy)
    On:
    Sat Mar 04 2006
    It is true.. good die young..
    Maybe that is why I'm still around
    LOL
    good walk down memory lane..
    They just don't make um.. like they used to.. ya know??
    Men I mean..
    Later
    peg
    have a nice weekend
  • From:
    Allimom (Legacy)
    On:
    Mon Mar 06 2006
    Between my depression and distraction with school work, my house had not been vacuumed & dusted in WEEKS, and every possible horizontal surface was cluttered with stuff all of us had failed to put away for longer than I care to admit. It really needed to be cleaned, I had just hoped that it could have waited until I was done with finals.
    Alli
  • From:
    Allimom (Legacy)
    On:
    Mon Mar 06 2006
    I'm telling you, all these math classes have had me seriously reconsidering a degree in English or Liberal Arts. It the job market was better for those fields, I probably wouldn't hesitate to change career paths. Unfortunately the fast-food market is flooded with employees with these degrees, which is discouraging!
    Alli
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Mon Mar 06 2006
    hey Chaya,

    just to answer your question, firefly was a sc-fi tv series that got canned by fox despite being a roaring success with many followers. apparently it made it down here to nz but was played late late at night. i have since become hooked on the idea of it since watching the movie 'serenity' which is the follow-on from the series firefly. many people have told me the series is excellent, so i can't wait!

    in regards to public pools closing, i am guessing yours are the outdoor variety, thus the closure over winter? we have a really nice large indoor complex here complete with gym and big swimming pool that remains open all year round so we can go swimming all year round

    sez
  • From:
    CovertOps (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Mar 07 2006
    Dear Chaya,

    Here's hoping you are having a good week.

    Love to Banshee and Krazy Kat.

    Love,
    E.L.
  • From:
    Camomille (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Mar 10 2006
    Hello!

    I have made a promise to myself to get my home computer up TOMORROW so I can catch up with everyone! Just wanted to say hello and I've been thinking of you.

    Lots of love,
    Anne