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Brit Milah
Thu Jan 15 2004

The Brit Milah that I spoke of earlier took place today with due ceremony. Only one hitch: the mohel who had been selected came down with the flu, so a mohel from Los Angeles answered the emergency.

OK, some terms for those of you who aren't Jewish:

1. The brit (also pronounced bris or brith) is the cirucumcision that boy babies are required to undergo on the 8th day after birth. Brit means covenant, and brit milah is the covenant of circumcision.

2. The mohel is the person who does the actual operation. They are generally rabbis, frequently doctors, always orthodox observant, and highly trained in the ceremony and performance of the brit. Even a surgeon must be especially trained for the traditional Jewish ceremony.

3. Elijah's Chair is a chair for use at a circumcision. It can be any chair, but in our congregation, we have a beautiful chair built to specification and presented to the congregation at the birth a particular family's first son.

Now for the ceremony itself. (As an aside, the mother doesn't have to be present, but the father does.) The kvatterin is the woman who is given the honor of taking the baby from the mother and presenting him to the kvatter who brings the baby to the kiseh shel eliahu, the man who receives the baby while he is sitting in Elijah's chair. Special prayers are said, and then the baby is handed over to the sondek, equivalent to godfather. He sits in Elijah's Chair and holds the baby while the actual circumcision is performed.

The baby was given a cloth soaked in sugar water to suck on while the circumcision was being done. He let out a little squeal when the first cut was made, but after that he quieted down. It used to be, and it may still be the custom in some places, to give the baby a drop of wine.

This particular mohel performed as though he was preparing for major surgery. Rubber gloves, sterile cloth over and around the baby. Antiseptic around the surgery site. A sterile scalpel (I saw him take it out of the sterile wrapping). Sterile 4x4s to mop up the little bit of blood from the cut. Then he sprinkled antiseptic powder on the wound and around the area, put a small sterile cloth around the circumcised area. Then carefully re-diapered the baby and handed him to his mother.

There were prayers said at certain points of the ceremony, and after the operation was done, the baby's name was announced: Aryeh Binyamin. Aryeh means Lion and Binyamin (English Benjamin) means Son of my Right Hand (or Strength, as the right side is considered the side of strength).

After that there were many mazel tovs, and the men davened (prayed) Mincha (the afternoon service), then we all went to the dining hall and had quite a spread. I kept looking for Mom and Babe, and was told that they were with the Mohel, and Mom was being instructed in how to care for the baby and the circumcised wound. This was their first son after three daughters, so I suppose some instruction was needed, but they didn't show up after....oh...maybe 45 minutes, and I was getting very tired. So I had a little nosh, then came home. I'll pay a visit in a few days.

I've left out a few details, but the main parts of the event are here chronicled.

Any questions?

10 Comments
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
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    Thu Jan 15 2004
    owie
  • From:
    Allimom (Legacy)
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    Thu Jan 15 2004
    Thanks for the explanation of the ceremony and terms. Cool stuff!
    Alli
  • From:
    Thubten (Legacy)
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    Thu Jan 15 2004
    Thanks for the enlightenment about this ceremony.
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    Calichef (Legacy)
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    Thu Jan 15 2004
    That was a fabulous explanation. I think you may have explained it more clearly than Blu Greenberg did in the book you sent me. Very educational, thank you.
    Love,
    ~Cali
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    Becoming (Legacy)
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    Thu Jan 15 2004
    I know this is such an important ceremony in the Jewish faith.

    I am glad as a non-jew that I had a girl.

    I get squeemish about these things.

    I am not sure where this got left behind with the Christian faith.

    Things like this an expression of one's faith and of a step in the life of a child toward being closer to God is wonderful. I read the article written by the Jewish mother whose daughter chose not to do this and about all the feelings the mother and father had about it in the AISH site. It's such an intergral part of the Jewish faith and truly a holy thing.
  • From:
    Allimom (Legacy)
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    Thu Jan 15 2004
    Apartment patio gardening, the haven for pansies, foxglove (but only one or two), columbine, ajuga, shooting stars and forget-me-nots.

    In my yard, the flower beds get absolutely no sun during the winter, and during late spring through early fall they only get morning sun for about an hour.

    While I love them, I get tired of pansies and impatiens!
    Alli
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    AQuietEvening (Legacy)
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    Thu Jan 15 2004
    Thank you for sharing, very interesting.

    ~QE
  • From:
    AeolianSolo (Legacy)
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    Thu Jan 15 2004
    I really enjoy looking over the shoulders of others' religious and spiritual traditions. Thanks for sharing the details of the brit. What a beautiful name they gave him!

    In some tribal nations (primarily in Africa) boys are circumcised at age 13 to initiate them into manhood. I think if it's going to be done, the earlier the better so the pain isn't an issue. The tradition of manhood at Bar Mitzvah makes more sense to me. I wish Gentiles had a similar custom; boys in our culture are never sure when they become men, and, sadly, some never do at all.

    --Solo
  • From:
    MagicWhiskey (Legacy)
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    Thu Jan 15 2004
    Thank you so much for taking the time to explain this Chaya.
  • From:
    Ozone (Legacy)
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    Fri Jan 16 2004
    No questions...you seem to have covered all Chaya. I know that I got neither wine or sugar water....I am very glad that I have no memories of it.