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An old friend(?)
Fri Nov 07 2003

An old friend dropped in -- for the winter, I'm afraid.

Yeah, I'm talking about Arthur Itis. Some of you may know him very well, but right now he's making his home in my knees.

I was doing so well for several weeks. No limping, not even using my cane. I even did some dancing!! But now **sigh**

The weather changed. It's cold and wet. And I hurt. The cold itself, or the rain itself, alone doesn't bother me. But it's the change in weather that hurts. So far the pain and stiffness are confined to the knees, but I feel a creeping stiffness toward the left hip.

Oh, well, kwitcherbitchin'. Some people can't walk at all.

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Went to visit friend Allen (the recent widower). We talked about G-d and the World to Come, and Helen. I think he's questioning and wanted some consolation or maybe assurance that his beloved Helen would be waiting for him in Eternity. Now my faith is strong and positive, and I think I left him cheered up. Oh, I hope so. He is such a dear man. I hate to see him so lost and lonely.

My granddaughter is going to be spending the weekend with me, and we'll go visit him on Sunday before I take her home. He keeps asking about "that pretty little girl," and I keep telling him she's not so little anymore. She's 12 years old and about five feet five inches now.

But Rena is a pretty girl, and a very loving child. Helen and Allen both thought of her as a charming, well-mannered child, almost like another grandchild. They always enjoyed her company. But this will be the first time she has visited since Helen died. We'll see how it goes. I'll have to warn her, though, that Allen wants to talk about Helen almost to the exclusion of anything else.

So, I guess I'll hobble to my recliner now and see what's on TV.

Shalom

10 Comments
  • From:
    CovertOps (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Nov 07 2003
    Oh, poor you, Chaya! Arthritis is horrible. My Mom had it in her right knee once. She took medication for it, but one smart physician gave her advice that proved the most useful -- keep the area warm. Her knee would never heal unless there was sufficient blood circulation to that area. So my Mom spent every night rubbing liniment or Deep Heat on her knee and then wrapping a heat pack around the affected area. After 6 months or so, she made a complete recovery. I wonder if you are already doing this, Chaya. If you aren't yet, I strongly recommend it. Can't do any harm. Besides, heat over any body part is welcome in winter, isn't it?
    As for your friend, I pray for him to have strength and courage, and find comfort in the knowledge that he and his beautiful Helen will never be apart again. I feel rather touched that he would want to see Rena. Rena must be a very special girl to be able to evoke such feelings of love in others. Not that I didn't know that before reading this entry, but still....
    P/S: Sheesh. I must be a runt if a 12-year old is 4 - 5 inches taller than I am!
    Love,
    E.L.
  • From:
    BillyTeabags (Legacy)
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    Fri Nov 07 2003
    Sorry to read about your soreness. I never stop to think the weather could make someone feel achy. (which is silly because the finger I broke always aches when it gets chilly.)
    Where are you again? I'm in BC and it's really getting chilly at night. It was only 2 degrees (celsius) in the parking lot at the grocery store last night. I keep telling Baby Teabags it's winter time now. I think she understands.
    Talk to you later and have a great weekend, eh.
  • From:
    Yetzirah (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Nov 07 2003
    Maybe a little axel grease rubbed on the knees would do the trick. I know a guy, he could get you a tubfull. :-)

    Y.
  • From:
    Ozone (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Nov 07 2003
    It has not gotten cold here, but pleasantly cool, so I guess that is about as much of a change of season that we will have....but it did bring on the same visitor to me this week. My left ankle is sore as hell and I had to cancel my run this morning. On top of that I had another visitor come the other day....the ole grastro-intestinal bug.

    Hope you and Rena (I love that name) have a nice weekend together, and that your knees stop bothering you.
  • From:
    Fairywishes (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Nov 07 2003

    Sorry to hear about your arthritis and the pain it is giving you.

    I hope you enjoy a lovely weekend.

    *fairywishes*

  • From:
    Thubten (Legacy)
    On:
    Sat Nov 08 2003
    Dear Chaya
    I hope you and Rena have a great time at the weekend...I look forward to reading about it. So sorry about the arthritis. I hope it doesn't put a damper on your fun,
    Lots of love from Thubten
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Sun Nov 09 2003
    sorry to hear about your knees :((
    i once had a very dear friend who suffered from athritis but was only in her mid 30s. we lost contact when she moved up north and got married, i wonder where she is now

    sez
  • From:
    Ozone (Legacy)
    On:
    Mon Nov 10 2003
    RYC: I do have the Marine Corps Hymn playing on the birthday entry.....can't you hear it? I hope that this is not one of those where only the poster can hear the music.
  • From:
    TraumaMama (Legacy)
    On:
    Mon Nov 10 2003
    So sorry to hear about your arthritis. :(
    I'm hoping for a weather change next week!
    I think we might have to shoot for meeting Thursday as my mom has something going on with her church on Monday. Something tells me I shouldn't have been in such a rush to come back to Oregon. Hindsight.
    Feel painfree soon.
  • From:
    Sezrah (Legacy)
    On:
    Mon Nov 10 2003
    RYC: oh my, isn't that always the way??! oh well, i suppose you know a heck of a lot about aquariums then. thanks for the tip :)

    sez