Pragmatist
Pragmatist

Not a productive day
Mon Feb 23 2009

I went to the lab to get blood drawn for my coumadin levels. Seems the Standing Order expired in December. Angie, the phlebotomist who also (wo)mans the front desk phoned my doctor's office in January for a renewal. No return call. No renewal of the SO. Big surprise. not.  Since my doctor's office wouldn't open again for another half hour, I elected to come home. So about quarter after 2:00pm, I called the office and gave the lab's fax number so the front office girl could fax a new SO to the lab.  She said she would do it right away. I called the lab and said I had called the doctor's office. The lab has my home phone, and Angie said she would call me when she got the order. No call.  So I'll call again in the morning.

I know I've had blood drawn since December. I think coumadin level was one of the things the surgeon ordered with the other blood work done in January. That must be why the expiration of the SO wasn't brought to my attention until today.

This isn't the first time that things haven't been done timely or at all. I'm giving serious thought to finding another doctor, as I'm not completely happy with the doctor, either. He doesn't listen very well. Medication orders haven't been transmitted to the mail order pharmacy.  Phone messages haven't been returned to other doctors, the mail order pharmacy, or me. I don't leave messages any more. I keep trying until I can get a human voice. And even that sometimes doesn't work. I left a message with the receptionist of the doctor who shares the office with my doctor.  I'm willing to bet that the message was given, but not followed up on. That had to do with my heart medicine, so I'm not happy about that!

What I need to do now is write down the various times messages haven't been returned; the times when medication orders haven't been followed up on; the times when faxes were to be sent and weren't.  One of the calls recently not returned was from the mail order pharmacy to my doctor's office asking for clarification of the new dosage of the heart medicine.
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Things like that NEVER happened before my previous doctor retired. He ran a very efficient ship--even when he allowed his office to be used as a training place for new doctors and for front and back office personnel. And he listened very carefully to what his patients were telling him. Oh! I miss my doctor.    We were together about 22 years.

Every time I have to change the colostomy bag, I want the whole thing to go away. But when I think of the post-op healing that will have to take place, I wonder if I really want to go through that again. Maybe I will be able to heal without all the problems of the last surgery. But I do feel conflicted! I'm taking my iron pills twice a day and trying to take care of myself to build up my strength for the next surgery.  Some time after Passover we'll talk about reversing the colostomy. But I will voice my fears when I see the surgeon next month--about three weeks from now.

Now I need to go to bed.


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4 Comments
  • From:
    Camomille (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Feb 24 2009
    That's a toughy, deciding if the surgery is worth it. I would not want to have to deal with the surgery. I guess you are right, wait and talk to the surgeon and then decide.

    As far as the issues with your doctor, they are very serious when you cannot get the help you need. I would definitely look at alternatives. Obviously, your health is extremely important.

  • From:
    Waterspriteflying (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Feb 24 2009
    It really does sound like you need to find a new doctor! Your health issues are too serious for your doctor and staff to be lackadaisical about, honestly, and I like the idea of your writing down the times they have been. Do you know someone who's really happy with their doctor? Or maybe the hospital, or even one of the local senior centers could recommend a geriatric specialist?

    On Felicity's Tide: Waters of Life is exactly right!

    Glad you liked the bookmarks!
  • From:
    Dreamerbooks2003 (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Feb 24 2009
    I can understand your concerns.. You did not have a smooth recovery.. In fact landed in ER how many times post op?? Three or at least 2 times..

    My Dad is not healing very quickly and is having a difficult time.. He just can't do much and mom is very needy and demanding.. I am taking a day off today and tomorrow will run around doing errands for them and cook them some chicken and dumplings.. Oh joy.. I am exhausted and my house looks like if a breeze comes in it will all collapse.. I have got to get some housework done...

    Oh.. your doc makes me angry.. You do need to document the times and dates of their goof ups.. especially Medication orders .. as that can be deadly.. Geeze.. Not acceptable - at all
  • From:
    Parett (Legacy)
    On:
    Tue Feb 24 2009
    I wish I had a magic wand! I think you are correct about looking for a different doctor. Word of mouth is usually a good way to find one. I hope you find a great one

    Bless you....Parett