Hello.My name is [first name]. I'm 47 years old, a veterinarian working in industry, and live with three cats and a wonderfully supportive man. You don't know me. That didn't stop you from making an incredible decision that saved my life. I can only imagine how difficult this was for you, and wanted you to know that you have been in my thoughts often during these past months. You have my sympathy, and my condolences on your loss. I wish I had better words for this, to convey the depth of these emotions. Please know that my feelings are heartfelt, and that there hasn't been a day since May that I haven't paused at some point to reflect on my unknown benefactor and his family and friends.
I wanted this chance to thank you and let you know how much I appreciate this wonderful gift you've given me. In the days before I received the new liver I was extremely debilitated from my disease. I was on disability. I had no energy, and had to ask for assistance with even the easiest of tasks, like getting the lids off of jars. I needed a handicapped-parking placard, and even then I was often worn out from just walking from the car to the building. I couldn't concentrate well enough to read a book or newspaper. And then I got the telephone call that gave my life back to me.
Three and a half months after the transplant I returned to work. I once again park my car at the back of parking lot and walk the full length of the lot to the building. I'm reading books again, and taking care of daily chores again. Virtually everything I lost has been given back to me. Even the smallest things have taken on new meaning; when I take the lid off of a jar now, I pause to think of the unknown donor and his family that have made this possible.
"Thank-you" seems too weak a phrase, but until I can find something better, I have to let it make-do. Thank-you, from the depths of my soul.
[first name]
Salamander
Fire Walking
The Letter
Wed Nov 26 2003
14 Comments
- From:Arielswing (Legacy)On:Wed Nov 26 2003this is the kind of letter that is tough to write, but you pull it off. too bad they can't know more about you.
- From:Calichef (Legacy)On:Wed Nov 26 2003I think that's pretty good. I tried to read it from the recipient's perspective. I think that you waited until this time of year is actually very good. The first holiday season after losing a loved one is very difficult, and this letter might make it easier. The only thing I might even suggest to add is that you are taking exceptional care of their child's liver, that you don't drink and are careful about medication that could damage it. They might feel better to know that the doctors are unsure as to why your original liver failed but that you were not engaging in behaviors that could have put you at risk. Oh, and you could add that it is working normally.
The above are just suggestions, and those particulars are not necessary, I suppose, but if it were the Kid, I would feel better to know that whoever got his organs would take good care of them.
~Cali - From:MoonriddenGirl (Legacy)On:Wed Nov 26 2003Beautiful.
- From:Jamisinc (Legacy)On:Wed Nov 26 2003That letter made me get teary eyed,,,and that's rare for me. It is a beautiful letter.
I am thankful that you got that gift.
Jami - From:BaXter (Legacy)On:Wed Nov 26 2003Great letter. You have always had a way with words.
- From:Honey (Legacy)On:Wed Nov 26 2003Beautiful...
Beautiful...
Beautiful.
What a beautiful letter.
I would not change a thing.
Telling them about your past health would only make them sad and they do not need to know that.
You did an excellent job telling them just what they needed to know....that you are leading a 'normal, healthy and happy life' once again, thanks to their 'decision'.
That will make them 'happy' knowing that they did they right thing. Also knowing that part of 'them' is living on, in you, is comforting to them, alone.
Again....
What a Beautiful letter.
Love,
Honey - From:Honey (Legacy)On:Wed Nov 26 2003P.S...
You letter also tells them...
What a 'Beautiful person' you are. - From:AQuietEvening (Legacy)On:Wed Nov 26 2003I think it's a great letter. I think you did a great job showing how much a difference it has made to your life. I'm glad you were able to find the words.
~QE - From:Toxicepiphany (Legacy)On:Wed Nov 26 2003That was beautiful. I know they will love and appreciate it.
- From:Thubten (Legacy)On:Wed Nov 26 2003A beautiful letter! I'm sure the recipients will appreciate it.
Love from Thubten - From:Coolkids (Legacy)On:Wed Nov 26 2003I think this very difficult letter, reflects such a deep gratitude that no more even needs being said.
Beautiful.
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ps..there was a private message yesterday for you I know the notifies werent going through. - From:MagicWhiskey (Legacy)On:Thu Nov 27 2003I need Kleenex.
- From:StrangeBrew (Legacy)On:Thu Nov 27 2003I missed the letter.
- From:Pringles (Legacy)On:Thu Nov 27 2003I think it was a wonderful letter. :)