Got calls from both the sisters last night, though I was in no condition to talk to them at length. The Elder Sister's medical package covers being a living donor. The Younger Sister's does not. They had warned us up front that this could be a problem but that they'd find a way with the financing. The Younger Sister didn't want to hear that. She wants me to check with my insurance again to make sure it won't cover her costs incurred for giving me part of her liver. I will do so, of course. But I asked once, and I believe she is going to be disappointed. I'll also ask and find out what the cost of screening is - if it's affordable then perhaps we can at least get her screened to find out if she's even a suitable match. In so far as the operation is concerned, I think it's somewhat inappropriate for me to offer to pay for her even if I could, which I can't. I simply don't have that kind of life savings. It would come too close to "buying an organ" for my comfort though. Besides, as I've said before, I'm not totally thrilled with this whole living donor thing anyhow. This might be a gracious way out for all concerned.
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I'm sorry about your sister. :/ Speaking of money & gifts, it really -is- the thought that counts. I hope your older sister is a good match for you.
how about some tea, eh?
That is awesome the one sisters health care will pay for being a donor! Have you found out for sure they are a match?
Feel better soon!