I have no idea why CSE has to not listen and be so stubborn sometimes.  I think it will be a while, once again, before I will be inviting her to come down.  I am not a happy person right now and I just want to hold my head in my hands and weep for CSE to see the emotional turmoil I go through with her on a regular basis.  I wish CSE would get help for herself and go see a doctor but both NMS and I do not even know when she was last seen by a doctor.  CSE has become one trusted person to someone I have tread very carefully with from this day forward because NMS and I can not force her to get the help she needs.  CSE is the one who needs to realize she needs help with her issues.