I have found out that I am and can be assertive. JT has really pissed me off last week, September 10th, and now I am not speaking to her anymore. I am sick and tired of JT living in a world of fantasy and not living in the real world. I have not accepted phone calls from JT since we last spoke to one another Thursday, September 10th. She has pushed me away entirely. I do not need to know JT's sex life! GROSS! To much information (TMI)!