Speaking of feeling unconfident. Trust. We come to trust the others after we’ve spend some time together, after we’ve spoke some words, shared some ideas. The more we trust, the more confident we become in ourselves. No longer afraid to say things, no covering of the true meaning. Confident that whatever we say, they’ll listen. With confidence comes the inevitable increase the amount of mistakes, wrong saying, etc. we are no longer careful. We trust. That we will be understood. And sometimes it happened that the effect is completely opposite. The less we care for the rights and wrongs in what we are saying, the more the pressure is on us to say the “right” things. Eventually either we become more careful in what we say, loosing trust in other’s will to understand or we loose those who have no patience or wish to make an effort, to reach out, to talk through misunderstandings. Wise words, I’ve been told once: “if they don’t like what you say, it doesn’t make you *wrong*”…