Thanks a lot, Peggy, for suggested solution to nail those men, who wouldn't make any notice on our bums ;-) [hmmm...or opposite, either way]
Makes me wonder, if there is such thing as correct answer to the "bum" question. and how many other tricky questions women can ask and men won't know what to say...
Anyway...of course, the day is done now and I didn't have time or thoughts or both to add to this, as I've promised...there are only 15 mins left of this day for me and no chance of enriching entry...I better announce a failure and close the day then...apologies if anyone expected more then that...
Some Other Time, perhaps...;-) Perhaps, even - Tomorrow ;-)