Leaving Those Friends Behind One Day
From this day forward, I will be careful with my so-called friends Janessa, Kelly, and Jennie. Why? I rarely see these friends unless we are down in the lobby in passing or chatting with our friends I have made while I moved in 2020. I believe my friendships with the three mentioned are indeed toxic. Janessa lies, Kelly uses people and tell fibs at times, Jennie rarely comes to Garden Court anymore, and when she is here, she is doing her laundry and having some free time from her boyfriend. She lives with her boyfriend and Jennie has a friend who is on her lease. Jennie is not subletting, but her friend does live here. With all that said now, I can do my part and walk away from these friends at some point. Once I move out of Garden Court, I will be only contacting them through Facebook and messenger. Even though I am not involved with any drama none of these girls are dealing with one another, drama still ensues around them, and my emotional health and support I have cannot handle their crap to this day. I am completely done with it all.
Anyway, a friend of mine and her caseworker are having problems with Kelly and there is to be no communication and contact between this friend and Kelly at this time according to the caseworker and my caregiver Jackie there will be two very upset people in my friend’s life if she has anything to do with Kelly. Kelly has her problems and the drama continues. Kelly has lost two sisters to death due to health scares, and that is a sad fact. I feel bad for Kelly because of losing family and husband in such a fashion —in a short time. Her husband dies, then her dad, then her middle sister, and then her little sister Geri who will be forever 43. Geri passed away before her 44th birthday within a month away from her death. Oh, my goodness, Kelly has had a lot happen in the past 4 years. I feel for her in that way, but as far as her friendship with me, I find her really caring for me less than she cares to use people. Sorry, people. Janessa is another story, too. What about Janessa?
Well, she has lied to me so many times and I caught her in yet another lie the other day about her so-called boyfriend. She told me the other day that she no longer has her boyfriend in her life and her parents are glad of it. That same week in conversation with my Garden Court friends and Jackie, I learned that Janessa was still with her boyfriend. Oh, my goodness gracious, I have had enough. No more texting Janessa anymore and believing her dang stories and her stupidness. I am sick and tired of her drama, too, lol, as I roll my eyes in knowing that Janessa had lied to me the other day anyway. I did not believe her anyway. Both Kelly and Janessa still have to grow up.
Jennie, on the other hand, does not lie to me, but her life with her boyfriend bothers me a lot. She has broken up with him three times or so, and she went back to him. This is her third try. Anyway, she does not live in her place anymore at Garden Court. Years ago, when she met a gentleman who moved into Burbank Plaza, and he fell in love with Jennie, and they married despite the fact that his mother and sister did not like her, I know that their marriage was not going to last, and I told her so, and I stopped being friends for a while and her husband’s son got pissed off about it and told me so, so I blocked her and her husband from contacting me for a while. Too much drama and I blocked her until she texted me asking me if my number was the same and that it was her contacting me for a reason. I saw the text and saw it was Jennie wanting confirmation and communication with me. I responded, yes, and allowed her to communicate in text. She was telling me that she was moving back to Janesville because she is divorcing her husband. I did not fine this a surprise at all when I knew it was going to happen, but I did not say anything as to how long her marriage would last because I did not know. After 5 years, she and her husband divorced. To add some sourness to her already salted wound of divorce, I did say that I knew her marriage would not last because her ex’s sister and mother did not like her, and I learned also, that her ex’s son was also being problematic in her marriage to her husband that led to the divorce. Jennie and her drama. Now, she is with a man who has verbally abused her, and she lives with him despite the past abuse. Men do not change. Their abuse worsens at times.