Thu Jan 01 2026 - Just. Stop.
Just. Stop.

Not the way I wanted to start the new year, with a note (I've deleted) from who I think is the same person I was trying to get away from. Same broken sentences and misspellings and phrasing and words. Plus, the admitted drug use. Not sure what their obsession with me is. Is it because I know that this person is not kind and compassionate as everyone thinks? Is it because it bothers them that I know what kind of person they really are? Is it because they have a need to be liked by everyone and I won't go along?

And it's not like I ever called this person out by name or wrote mean notes on their entries or anything.They attacked me and then deleted the attack the next day (probably when they weren't on drugs). I took the high road and did not engage and still they are not satisfied. They are obsessed.

Not sure what to do next. But this person needs to 1) get a job 2) get a life 3) stop the drugs and 4) get a hobby that doesn't involve stalking people who don't like them. My boring life is not one worth following.


Comments (5)

Sorry you have to go through that i agree not a good way to start the new year hopefully it will get better

If it is a truly abusive person, I think Steve can help you with that.

Is this someone causing you drama on here or still on OD?

If here, then let me know - use the Contact Us link in the system menu and I will investigate and take appropriate action. We do NOT tolerate abuse on DearDiary.Net and never have.

Thank you, it is not abusive, it's just really annoying that they obviously searched around diary sites to find me here. And I'm not certain it is the same person. But if it is, and it goes beyond annoying, I'll let you know.

If it's another user annoying you on your own diary then I consider that abusive. Let me know if at any point you need further input.

I may add a configuration option for diarists to disallow private comments, thus, for those diarists that are getting abusive comments in private there would be the option to make sure they had to post publicly and at least show themselves.

Anyway - I shall sit tight, but if you need any additional assistance you know where I am.

 
 
 
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