As far as my family is concerned, I will communicate with my dad very little about some things because he gets a little temperamental these days due to his health issues he has with his heart. Sometimes I wonder if they think I do not understand when I DO UNDERSTAND what is going on. I hate it when Sandy speaks for my dad! When she does speak for him, I am NOT apparently understood?! That hurts me more than anything to be very honest with you and that bothers me to tears! I hate it with a passion because of the hate.