Pull me
Passive
Aggressive
Dr. Jeckyl
Mr. Hyde
Different words I have heard used lately all applied to the same thing.
Its the two different personalities, or behaviors, or whatever you want to call it.
Today so and so was nice to me. Wow, how cool is that? And you start to feel good inside, you start to trust, you begin to let your guard down.
What is interesting is if you dont respond to the niceness, you just ignore. Not that you say anything mean. You simply dont say anything at all.
To be greeted the following day with Anger. To personal attacks.
See often times the niceness is a manipulation tool. Sorta like "Hey if I be nice to this person I can get my way with whatever it is I want to accomplish" Then when the person does not respond to there niceness, they change to the other side. And that is when the Love is not shown, the very Love they spoke about the day prior, is cancelled out by todays behaviors.
It was never about Love in the first place, It was to manipulate.
Because if it was based on love, truth or concern, it would have been followed over the long term by actions that would show that. Not a set of words said in one moment.