Sparkler
No More Drama

Children and Divorce
Mon Mar 11 2002

Well, I had thought with the playing of that song Forgiveness by Don Henley meant a peace offering. I had thought with the events of September 11th we would become friends.


We have 2 children, what is between us is over. Its time to work together for THEM.


They are not tools to abuse, use, to ask information from, to manipulate, to hear negative words said about the other parent to.


They are OUR children, who need LOVE.


I was driving home from church tonight and No More Drama came on again from Mary J. Blige. I remember the first day I heard it, It became my little anthem theme song. Im so tired of drama, tired of games.


All I want is for us to work together. But if that were so easy to come by we wouldnt be apart. I wouldnt want a divorce.


Think long and hard about what you are doing when children are involved. They are watching and learning from us adults.