I didnt tell her about something cause I knew how she would feel about and didnt want to hear her negative response, Later on eventually I had to tell her, she is a part of my life and it wasnt something I wanted to hide.
So she at the point was very sweet and told me she was sorry that I felt I couldnt come to her. And was really easygoing about the whole thing.
Now fast forward. This thing that happened was regarding the same issue I was afraid to talk to her about. I didnt approach her with it the day that we last spoke. She began to question me. I answered, and she was dissatisfied with my response and my conclusion, and kept pushing at me to see it her way. I would not. I listened to what she had to say. It was really not a situation she is involved in. She is an outsider to it.
And so the pressure was getting to much. I just listened after telling her my side a few times and she wouldnt budge, so we just never sent a message again.
Yes she is a good friend. And I dont think we will not be friends again over this, I guess I just want to know how to handle it properly. And tell her I can make my own decisions for myself. She was one of those people I often went to crying and upset and she almost tries to be a parent role with me.
Thanks for the input so far :)