Well, #1 has has not been deterred from his habit of going to websites he is not supposed to. One would think after being disciplined he would think twice. Nope. And he doesn't know that Mom's and Dad's have ways of finding out where he has been!
#1 now will have no computer life for years, possibly decades. He has been grounded for life and all his Christmas gifts returned. OK, maybe not, but he has been banished to his room and all his toys taken away from him.
How do you discipline a child that does not respond to any kind of discipline? How do you teach him a lesson, when he does not learn? It is enough to make me want to scream and hit my head repeatedly against the wall.
Maybe I need to re-think taking away everything he got for Christmas except the underwear and sweaters.