In my "diaries I read" menu, I have recently removed a few people from there. This is not an insult of any kind. These diaries have Comet Cursors on the sites. Each time I go to these diaries, Comet Cursors push out to my computer wreaking havok with it, causing me to spend quite a bit of time fixing it. During this time my computer is very much unusable.
So....if you used to have a link in my drop down menu, and it has been removed, that is why.