New Neighbors
Wed Jun 22 2005

The house directly across the street, next to the annoying neighbor’s house, is finally getting a family to fill it. The original family put it up for rent the day after they were supposed to move in, and now it has a family of its own.

I met the Dad, his wife and 5 kids will be moving out here in a few weeks. We did find out that they do have a couple kids about the same age as the twins. It will be nice to have some older kids on the street. While there are a lot of families here, those that do have children are very young ones.

As for the annoying neighbors… not much of a change there. They still have loud conversations on their front porch late at night, they still park out in the street blocking traffic, and there are still strange things that go on there that there is no apparent reason or cause for. Hopefully though, now that the house next to them will have someone living in it, they will no longer block that driveway when they park all their cars out in the street.

On another subject, I saw a commercial for a show titled Brat Camp on TV. It looks interesting. Families with out of control teens send them to this “camp” that sounds like one of those tough love kind of situations. I’m looking forward to it personally. I’m sure there are some out there who will feel this is abominable. Those are probably people who have the freak of nature kids who never do anything wrong, or people who have no children at all.

A note here, it has been pointed out to me that it sounds like I am jaded against those parents of perfect (or at least extremely well behaved) children. It is more that I am frustrated by them. While I know that they are not all the same, I have had more than one parent of well behaved children suggest to me that the problems my chidren have are the fault of myself and my husband.

To people who feel that way, I have one thing to say to them. Eat my shorts.

9 Comments
  • From:
    Pragmatist (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Jun 22 2005
    My kids were perfectly behaved in public. Never any problems at school.

    But home was another thing entirely. I raised them to think for themselves, be independent, and responsible for their actions, and they took it and ran with it. All over me.

    They ganged up on me!!!

    I told them I'd kill them if they embarrassed me in public, so they took it out on me privately. Oh, we did have some times!!

    Shalom
  • From:
    Dreamerbooks2003 (Legacy)
    On:
    Wed Jun 22 2005
    ;)
    Hahahah.. eat my shorts..
    That is funny.
    I have said it before.. and I'll say it again; I think the relationship you have with your boys is wonderful.. nothing wrong there!!!!
    :)
    and people can also eat my shorts!!
  • From:
    Causingchaos (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Jun 23 2005
    I live in a small town now (small town area) and grew up in a smaller town. And I've lived in big cities. Let me tell you. I miss those big cities. lmao Small town living just isn't for me. It's good enough for now but if I never see a city again god that would be horrible.

    Don't forget the teenagers with their town scavenger hunt where they went door to door for items and people actually would give them butcher knives. lol
  • From:
    ImNotLisa (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Jun 23 2005
    My niece and nephew sound like Pragmatist's kids. Perfect angels on the outside but on the inside, no way. I think you're on top of what your kids need for discipline, and I've never read anything that made me back away from the computer here. Well, there was that one time, I was kind of afraid you'd figure out a way to shove a zuchini through the computer at me. Other than that we've been cool. ;o)
  • From:
    Sugardancer1007 (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Jun 23 2005
    I was going to comment but all I can do is snort and laugh. "Eat my shorts". At least you didn't say "bite my butt". Have a good evening!

    :)
  • From:
    (Unauthenticated) (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Jun 23 2005
    The little blueish purple flowers are wild violets, a wonderful cancer fighting medicinal wildflower. (I use mostly wildflowers for medicinals and input them into the garden with everything else to keep hubby from mowing them down :)

    That entry of yours about not being able to have it both way about kids is very true.

    I never used to spank but since Little Fawn went to a wild and roudy daycare I find myself sometimes having to spank her when she refuses to listen. Having new neighbors that have kids is wonderful because they usually play and mind their own business as opposed to old biddies that want nothing but trouble. (most times) Lol.
    Eva
  • From:
    Hellcat (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Jun 23 2005
    Sorry about that unauthenticated reply- I typed my password in wrong (I just woke up) and eyes aren't working properly.
  • From:
    TraumaMama (Legacy)
    On:
    Thu Jun 23 2005
    Your veggies are looking good (last entry pics).
    I plan on watching Brat Camp too.
    People should butt out of other people's business regarding kids. I'd say something worse than you. :)
  • From:
    InStitches (Legacy)
    On:
    Fri Jun 24 2005
    "....I have had more than one parent of well behaved children suggest to me that the problems my children have are the fault of myself and my husband."

    I've been fed that line too. I join you in your sentiment. LOL