Honestly, a big bushy moustache does indeed look Saddamistic. Unfortunately there are some men who go the other way and end up with a little Hitlerish patch of fuzz on their upper lip.
I guess you need to ask yourself this, which sadistic tyrant do you prefer to look like? Personally I think if a man wants to keep his upper lip shrouded in hair, he should go for the Wilford Brimley look. (As a side note, while I like his moustache, I do not agree with all his opinions and the things he supports.)
I have to admit, the Saddamistic moustaches have completely disenchanted me with regards to Tom Selleck's Magnum PI look. Now there is a man a girl could really sink her teeth into (figuratively speaking of course, wink-wink!). That he was known for having that moustache long before most people ever heard of Saddam doesn't matter. One bad moustache has ruined the look for millions of men world-wide. Recently Tom has changed his look by increasing his facial hair, and looks quite splendid with a beard.
Blonde men fortunately have an advantage in this arena. Take Alan Jackson for instance. No one would accuse him of being Saddamistic in appearance.
Sam Elliott is another person who could never be called Saddamistic. He unfortunately has shaved his trademark moustache for a recent project.
Personally, this girl much prefers a clean shaven look to her men. Any man I'm going to kiss is much more kissable without a moustache tickling my nose and making me sneeze. Sneezing during a kiss just ruins the moment!