Hubby has a headache today. He gets migranes from time to time which completely cripple him and put an end to anything going on that day. Frequently these end up in my taking Hubby to the Emergency Room, where Hubby lays in pain and I sit for hours worrying about the kids gettig into things at the house while we are gone. After several hours, with Hubby receiving IV fluids and a shot or two of Demerol, we return home. Hubby then goes to bed and I clean up the mess the kids made.
Hubby just informed me he is going to take another med and give it 30 more minutes to see if he can get it under control here at home. If not, off we go.
I feel bad that these episodes irritate me. I would be less irritated by it if Hubby would go to the docs and press for them to find what is causing all this. He knows it is related to his sinuses, but nothing else. The docs have several things they can to for this, but Hubby doesn't want to go to the doc too often as he is afraid he will lose his job is he does. I point out to him that if he does go and they fix the problem, he won't have the headaches anymore and he subsequently won't lose his job. He still won't go.
Men!