I have come to the point in my life that now my dad is going to have to start calling and I will stop calling him for a while. He gets angry and raises his voice at me because I ask stupid questions and I do not think before I speak. What person does not do that? Now, knowing this, I can now begin to heal and move on in my life. I will have to be careful what I say to my dad from now on and the calling idea at my end is changing for now. I do not want to deal with his anger outbursts ever again.
I have talked to my aunt this afternoon. All seems to be going smoothly for her at this point. We talked about another aunt who happens to be in a nursing home now. In fact, this aunt is the only sister my dad has, and the rest are brothers. The aunt I talked to today was married into the family and my uncle she was married to passed away in 1997.
Yay! I can now heal from all that has happened to me and move on in my life. I am going to continue live independently the best I can from this day forward and be happy with what I do. Tomorrow is going to be a semi-busy morning, and what I do once a month makes me very happy.