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The Time is NOW!!!

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The news is getting way worse these days. There has never been more of an urgent time in history that we, as citizens of this once great county, need to get on our knees and start praying. I don’t care if you don’t believe in “God”, but there is a higher power that is unseen that knows what is best for us.

If you think about it, this country was once founded on being “ONE NATION UNDER GOD”. What can everyone NOT get out of that statement that was voiced, and made a vow, of sorts, and upheld for a time. If you think about when this country was founded, the men and women of that time were deeply devoted to “God”. They were a moral, and upstanding country of citizens. Now look at us. With crime, and all the crap we have going on in this county…..where are we? In the pit of hell, heading further down the pit if we don’t do the right thing.

Nothing is working, is it, to get rid of the bad people behind the big wigs who run the country. Why? Because we are a bunch of weaklings who have no self control over anything, and we are so caught up in our daily lives, our material things, our busy lives that we call living. We aren’t living. If you are so busy that you can’t give yourself some free time to get out and nature and commune on your knees before God, then, I don’t know what the future has in store for you.

It’s sad because so many people are turned away from the One who supplies us with abundant life. Look at our world today. There are droughts going on threatening the crops. There are nasty weather causing power outages at a time when the heat is on the rise. What is going on?

We are going into the time of some intense testing of our souls. If you’re soul is weak, you will be affected far more than those who believe in a “Higher Power”. It will be the strong who survive. Do you want to be strong? I suggest you try to get in as much meditation time with your families all doing it. It is important that you get your minds and hearts right with the Lord above, because, look before you, do you not see the signs? Will you be like the Pharoah, who’s heart was hardened into letting the Lord’s people go? What happened? The Lord sent plague after plague upon the lands, and still yet, Pharoah hardened his heart. His people….his army….were destroyed in the end.

If disaster strikes your area, as that that has been hit this last week, with power outages. Take that time to reconnect to your loved ones. Bond with each other again. So what if you electricity went off, renew family relationships in the time you have together. Familes are falling apart because of technology holding everyone in a zombified state glued to the tv’s, video games, cellphones, etc.

This is a wake-up call to all of us. We need to reconnect to the One above. This is an urgent time. You can not mock that this is not going on. This is a time we have been shown that is a prelude of things to come. We are headed for judgment through natural disasters and of course the work of Satan helping to destroy what this country and world used to be.

Life would not be this way if those wars were not being thought to happen, or all the stuff that we are facing in the near future. That is not life. Then the media comes along and bombards us with all kinds of diversions and obstacles, and of course the draw to believe that what is seen on that square box device is not always true or real. Just like Hollywood, everything, or most of it, is not what is real, we are being dooped.

I can’t imagine how many people are going to be rioting, or are right now even, in those states that were affected. With the heat, we all know that it can tend to make people testy. Can you imagine those who’s hearts aren’t right with God, or those who have already turned toward the evil?

This, people, is the war between the heavens and the Earth that we are experiencing, and are on the verge of experiencing in a far greater things that will marvel but also give people the opportunity to experience a far greater way of life. But, it has to start with us getting on our knees. Not literally, if you can kneel, by the way. If you don’t feel that you can meditate sitting up, then lay down! Meditatation will draw you into yourself, so that you can examine you, and how you are doing. But, most of us have such frazzled thoughts, and sometimes we are focused on the negatative things in your life. Meditation is the practice of clearing you mind of thoughts so that you can divulge in your soul’s interest.

Today, we can’t understand anymore, how it is our souls that are dying and decaying. We are having a multi-social meltdown of people because technology has literally taken over the minds of so many people and it is a trap, for when what ever is coming , comes, the awake will see it coming while the blind will be the ones who fall.

I can understand if you have been turned away from “relgion” because, what you see in most churches these days is a farse. It is fake, just to make people look like good little “Christian” doobies. Yeah right. So many churches, look at the Catholic religion (and yes, I believe in the One above with all of my soul, it is the basis of my life now, and I honestly went through a time in my life when I didn’t know if I believed in God at all, or even thought about it). Religion is so mundane. It is just a bunch of people gathering together to sing, read out of a book, stand up behind a stand, and be showy, giving the “Message” of God to people who sit and listen to someone speaking. Granted, there are a few out there that do teach. I learned a lot that enlightened my faith in the early years of my rebirth. I don’t feel that I need to listen to other’s views anymore, as much, because I can learn all I need from inside my heart. I believe in God, and it is as simple as that. I know how to be the kind of person I should be in order to please Him, and that is what counts the most in this game we call Life. We have to return to being those upstanding citizens that this country once held, stand up for our rights, get on our knees every day, making it a habit to pray about the things in our life that need changing, the things that we need that are necessary (this does not always mean the best of the best of the best of material things). We need to strengthen our souls. We need to get back to the basics of life, live simply, and have a large faith that brings joy, peace, love and harmony into every society in every state, in every part of the world if we unite in one mind knowing that the One above just wants us to recconect with each other in love.

Don’t you people see that we are destroying each other? I mean some people out there are concocting virus’ behind our backs, intending to forcefully mandate everyone to get one. They are taking our rights away slowly because we are so complacent. Read about Jericho in the Bible. They were instructed to walk around Jericho 7 times and then the wall magically fell down.

That is what faith can do for an entire country, or the entire world for that matter. Think about what we are doing in our own lives. Do we live by a faith that causes us to be habitually loiving. Our lives would be filled with so much pleasure and joy if we were to live in joy and love. But, we aren’t. We are becoming a nation that is falling apart at the seams. Do you want to see your country, or the world come back to life and full of vigor and loving and no more negativity? Well, then you need to begin with yourself first and foremost. C’mon, you know you got something going on inside that you know isn’t right. It can be healthwise, mentally, physically, socially, or whatever. Inside is what counts. Are you someone who follows the crowd just to be popular, but it is tough to be kept at that type of status.

We are losing the spiritual battle fast, and it is growing more and more apparent in the world and in our nature. P.U.S.H. Pray Until Something Happens. Don’t quit praying even when things seem at their worst. Don’t quit. It is your life-line to the Lord above. That will be the key you hold to getting through anythhing that is thrown your way. It is your sheild against the arrows of Satan who will try to destroy your life. If you have not had a hard life, I urge you to consider this, even, if you are still skeptical. I told you I went through a time when I was uncertain, and really didn’t have a thought of God for years in my life. I didn’t care. My left went down hill. My belief has kept me above the water through many, many times that would have put any one under the ground. I have wanted to. Many times, believe me. My faith has made me stronger to withstand the small things. They say, don’t sweat the small stuff.

That is what we are doing, and that is why riots are going to be inevitable. People all over the country are angry, and the anger is going to get out of control. It is going to get scary if we don’t have faith. Plain and simple. Believe in the good of things. Stop ejecting negative thoughts. Dwelling on the past doesn’t get you anywhere, no matter how hard you try to make it. We are moving ahead in a fast rate, that is evident. We are moving toward something that is going to wake those who are ready to wake up. Time is coming. Are you prepared, in your souls, minds and hearts? Get ready, we are in for one heck of a ride coming our way.

Toxic People

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I’m living with a bunch of toxic, negative people. I have been blind to these kind of people, always thinking that it was me or maybe I needed to change in order to get along with them.

We all need relatioships. All of us. This is how we communicate and live among others in our lives. It can be a husband/wife, parent/child, sibling, other famiy member, or a friend or lover relationship. We all have them.

Now, granted, many of you might have wonderful relationships with those in your lives. But there are those of you who are living with toxic people in your lives. You who are, must acknowledge these people for who they are….toxic people. A toxic person can make the most gentle, sincere, kind of person become infected wth their toxicity.

When you are around omeone, do you feel like your are emotionally numb? Have low energy levels? Feelings of low self-worth. Even physial ailments such as nausea, headaches and muscle tension can be caused by the toxic people in our lives.

Toxic people are those who complain about everything, even the most mundane of things. They tend to blame you for the things that happen to them. Even if you try to defend yourself, they have a way of turning hings around so that it is your fault no matter what the case might be.

They overreact to bad events, and blow things way out of proportion. They expect bad things to happen, even fantasize about them. When they do happen, they escalate things beyond reason. It is as though they purposely seek out to instigate a fight.

They are full of negativity, constantly bombarding you with it. My friend starts off sentences, in speaking to me, “You’ll never…”, “It will never happen…”, “You can’t do…” They suck your energy so much that you don’t feel like you have will to fend off their brutal negative attacks. Their constant pessimistic attitude infects you like a disease. If you don’t catch it, you could easily start to become like them.

If you find that you are angry and resentful toward them, don’t fret. This is what toxic people will make you feel like. These leeches feed themselves off yourenergy. The thing is, non-toxic people don’t realize that we feed into their garbage, and give them our energy. This is a hard lesson to learn.

These vampire parasites are drawn to the weak. If you are already dealing with things like mental illness or deperession, then you are susceptible to them. It is as if you have a target painted on your forehead or something.

They destroy your self-confidence, making you feel utterly stressed out. Funny, though, when everything is said and done, once they have finished their tirade, they walk away with a smile. What is up with that? You are left angry and bitter, and they walk away like nothing happened.

It is as though they are determined to transfer their miserable unhappiness on you. In this way, they make themselves feel better.

They are addicted to drama. They are not happy unless they provoke some form of drama and strife. They take great pleasure in creating this nonsense chaos where there is peace, as though they can’t stand to see anyone else happy and alive. Then in a weak moment, they come in for the kill and destroy any shred of joy you might have.

These people have trouble taking any responisibility fr their actions. When they do something spiteful or mean, they transfer the blame to someone else. But, when the tables are turned and they get hurt by someone, they wallow in their own puddle of self-pity.

They never seem to learn from their own mistakes. When they make a mistake they repeat it over and over like a broken record.

Have you ever had a conversation with a toxic person? You know you can’t talk with them too long efore they turn the conversation around to focus on them. “Me”, “Myself” and “I” are their favorite words.

They will lay all their problems on you, and then expect you to solve it for them. Then later on, they will change their mind and not want you to do anything about it. When it is all forgotten, they will bring it up again, and how you didn’t bother to care.

Let’s face it. Toxic people will always put their needs first and foremost. Yours don’t matter to them. They seem tothink that they have this entitlemnt to receive everything, even when it concerns you.

They are selfish and self-centered. Their thoughts are all about what they want in life, and aim to get it, even if it means stepping over the line with you. Life simply revolves around them. They are demanding of you, but will not budge when it comes to them giving.

They sometimes will devulge their demands outright, but many hint and beat around the bush about what they are expecting. Thi is because they are cowards in disguise. They use bullying to get ther way.

They are an expert manipulator. If you don’t comply to their wishes, then they will play the guilt trip on you. They like to make people think that they are obligated to them for. Even when you do eveything in your power to pleae them, they are never pleased.

I know I get resentful when I see the toxic person I live with taking, always taking and never giving. No matter how much you do, you will never be shown any apreciation for it. They don’t know how to give it. You will never find tat they respect you or treat you with decency.

They will never understand the meaning of other people’s boundaries, as they themselves don’t have any. According to the toxic person, physical, emotional or mental boundaries don’t exist in other’s lives, and they will step over them.

They are nosy. They will stick their nose into your business as well as everyone else’s. My toxic friend seems to know what is going on over at the neighbor’s house too much. Personally, what other people do is not my problem.

They will ask you all kinds of personal questions. This is because they are fishing for information. The thing about this is that, down the line, they wil use that information to exploit it against you if you don’t comply to their wishes.

The drain your energy leaving you feelng tired, and emotionally drained, frustrated, stressed, depressed, or even angry at them. How does a toxic person make you feel? Do you dread going to visit that person because they make you want to run out of the room whenever you are with them?

They are very narcissistic and always the pessimist. They normally are antisocial people, probably because no one wants to be around them. They have no conscience. If you are living with a toxic teenager you know the hellish existance that they make your home. They are completely and utterly rebellious, defiant and out of control.

Toxic people love to gossip incessiantly. It is like an elixo for them. They will stab you in the back for no good reason, only to make your life miserable. They don’t give their behavior a single thought, usually. They will purposely tell you secrets to hurt you.

These people are vey judgmental and can be very prejudice. They are snobbish and think themselves better than others. Many are know-it-alls. They will put you down, but are highly sensitive and defensive when the tables are turned on them.

What is worse is that they tend to be highly jealous. You can’t have any achievements or successes in your life because they feel inferior to you. This will throw them into a tizzy and they will try to destroy what you have gained. They won’t celebrate your happiness with you.

They are overly needy for attention. That is why they want everything focused on them. If you live with one, you no longer enjoy life. Every day becomes a chore. You are pouring your energy into makng them happy, but all the while fogetiing yourself.

Your mind is always ormenting over the things that they have said or done. You seem to feel that they are all that you think about, over and over again.

You continually fantasize about getting away from them. When they aren’t around, you are actually relieved and feel more like yourself. That is, util they return, and the cycle starts all over again. The situation might even be causing troubles with your sleep.

What can you do? Learn to assert yourself and say NO. This is one of the hardest words for a non-toxic person to say. We love doing for others, but when we encounter a toxic person, they only take, take, take, and we lose sight of ourselves in the quest to make them happy.

Don’t let them take advantage or encroach on your personal thoughts, speae and freedoms. When they are selfish or disrespectful, don’t give into the emotions that come with the hurt. It is imporant to remember that they are thrive on drama and loveto feed off of it. Funny how these people can create a destructive stir, and walk away smiling.

Work up the courage within yourself to dismiss them from your presence. Simply put, get them out of your life. You don’t need them. They are there just bringing your down into the pit of their lonely existance. If you continue to allow them to remain in your life, you run the chance of becoming like them.

Don’t feel sorry for their problems, mishaps or drama. The tears and boohooing that they might do are all part of the show. That’s what they want, because then, of course, the attention is directed on them. They love the limelight. They will play the ultimate victim. If you feed into that, they will sink further into more self-pity.

When they start to complain, refuse to listen to them. They want you to be in the middle of their created chaotic mess. Becoming a part of their problem, you are giving them more energy to continu. It’s best to remain neutral and detached. Put up a mental shield against them

Toxic people don’t ted to change. They change you. Get them out your life. Know the signs. And when you encounter a new one, you’ll be able to run the other way.