感謝照顧

在這裡衷心多謝Cookie 及Auntie 的照顧,為我們帶來了第一次的自駕遊!也令我這病驅得到充分的休息!還有風趣幽默的大貓、超乖的木仔、與我親近的細貓陪伴!超級開心!感謝x10000! — with Kuk Kei Bing.

旅行中的快樂來源

旅行其中一樣令我開心的事是看到合適貼心的禮物!好友們,期待我的手信啦!:)
(未買到的不是沒有把你們放在心上,只是未遇上那命定的!嘻~ 我不想頹買頹送呀!)
Tag 住幾位先,等你們期待一下! — feeling wonderful with Tracy Ho and 3 others.

FOCUS ON THE GOOD DEEDS IN TRAGEDY

【喬靖夫:正因為人性醜惡,我們才要繼續戰鬥】聽到女嬰恐已逝世的消息,情緒很低落。相信不少人會因為被騙而憤怒,但我覺得不必。即使拐帶是假,我們當日付出的關心、同情和正義感卻是真的。再來一次,我們也該這樣做。

亦有人會因看到這樣的案件,覺得對人性失望。我倒是想,人性本來如此,有極醜陋,也有極美好。

因此我們才要繼續戰鬥。

FOCUS ON THE GOOD DEEDS IN TRAGEDY

I think most of us have learnt and experienced a lot from the recent baby murdered case during the past few weeks.

It is natural for us to be sad.

Some may even get angry because of the mother’s dishonesty.

Here I would like to share with you a view from a writer, 喬靖夫.

He thinks there is no need for us to be angry.

Though the kidnap is fake, the good deeds we have shown in the process, e.g. concern, sympathy, feeling of justice are all real.

Even something like this happen again, we still should do the same, try our very best to help.

Yes it is understandable that people may get disappointed by what the mother has done.

But it is true that human nature can be good as angel, and at the same time being evil.

Therefore, the writer thinks that is why we still need to fight.

In fact, I think not only we need to fight against crime, the fighting is also within ourselves.

It is not easy to be a good person all the time, but it is worthwhile to take little steps to be a better man.

I always think if I can do what it is said in this meaningful prayer, I can already be a better man. May I ask you to read carefully and try to act this out in every new day.

Let’s turn to our prayer book page 12, ”Prayer for A New Day”.

Ms. Y.C. Ng

17 December 2013
Picture from: taikungpao.com.hk, wikipedia.org

正!!! 有道理的東西,睇幾多次都覺得正~~~
兩人的關係,根本沒有第三者評論的資格。Unless, you are invited to give comment.

青年問禪師:「王菲和李亞鵬離婚了,是否愛情根本不存在?」

禪師微微一笑,指着餐桌上的一把叉子,對青年曰:「看看它你就會明白了。」

青年參詳良久,若有所思曰:「大師的意思是否說愛情的意義就像這把叉子一樣,看似平淡無奇,只要堅持,就能堅固無比?」

大師閉上眼睛曰:「非也!我意思是說,人家離婚,關你叉事。」

 

存在先於本質

相處日久,我們總會發現身邊人的性格缺點/差異。
最初,我們會選擇別過面,裝作看不見。
這大概是自欺欺人吧。
到底還是要了解過後,真實的面對,
問問自己對他的那份愛夠大嗎?那個他又值得嗎?
那個差異或缺點是可以接受得來嗎?
如果仍然確信自己的愛足以包容大家的差異,
那麼我會選擇接受這樣的你,反之亦然。
其實,這才是負責任的表現吧,也是長久相愛之道。
當中不只是緣份的牽引,也是自主意志的表現。
噢!我想起昨天看的《接近無限溫暖的藍》中談及存在先於本質。

暫停鍵

我是個一牽手就想走到最後的人。想起初次看到「緣起不滅」時,真的感覺很好。

但有時候,我相信緣份需要按暫停鍵。無奈,但有需要,因我相信這樣對妳我都好。