The question is one of balancing the truth and the facts against the risks both financially and emotionally to the ones involved… the last place you ever want to be is depending on the justice system to oversee one of their own… they are if one pardons the expression thick as any set of thieves… it is said justice is blind butt that depends on what one considers being blind… for a fee all this can go away is a very common thread that is weaved… or they wait you out and hang the noose over your head hoping that another incident can be created and therefore bring about what they created to begin with… it is a very standard procedure they use… we know you are guilty and we may not have caught you this time butt it is only a matter of time before we catch you because we have our eyes on you… these are the same ones who when they are in a bind will pull out their cards and get a pass… the old brotherhood thing… the more I learn about the law the less I want to ever be involved in it in any measure…

We never try to persuade… it happens… we say what we think… in relation to that we cause the other to think of alternatives to the thoughts they are having or to dig their feet in and stand their ground… we are not trying to divert the road another is on… it happens some times… we just bump into them and sending them down an offshoot… or onto a completely uncharted wandering they never considered as a possibility… these are not evil steps that we are taking to hold some one in the still here and now… we are just making responses to the situation at hand… we all have opinions and those will influence people… it just happens… so it is important that the intent is a positive one… just being who we are can alter another’s point of view… we do that well and some times poorly… butt we do it more or less by just being who we are… we are called upon to be that especially when another is in need of a thought or two…