..... and cared for two elderly cancer patients - my parents in their last months of life - at the same time....Prince Charming Doesn't Live Here
Gerri Gribi © 1986 BMI All Rights Reserved
"I wrote this for the award-winning video documentary "Poverty Shock: Anywoman's Story" produced by Northeast Wisconsin Instructional Television (NEWIST) in Green Bay. The content of the video was guided by an advisory committee of women who had been on welfare, and had worked very hard to get off.
In discussions with these women, one shattered myth which consistently arose was that of the "Prince Charming:," the person who would magically whisk them away and make their lives perfect. I am indebted to those women for their candor and spirit, which I hope I've captured here."
It was such a pretty story when I was a little girl
Didn't need an education to survive in this world
Just be sugar and spice, make a man a good wife
And he will take care of you all of your life
So I found my Prince Charming, and raised a family
First one child, then two, and soon there were three
Knee-deep in diapers I worked night and day
While my "prince" drank whisky and sat in the way
When he started to hit me, I finally woke up
Now it's me and the kids alone, down on our luck
A business can go bankrupt, and start over again
But a single mom's a "Welfare Queen,"
scourge of the land
Being poor, being hungry, it's not what I planned
I can hardly move forward, I lose ground where I stand
I don't need your pity, and I don't need your hate
Just give me a chance and I'll set my life straight
Because there is no Prince Charming,
there's no magic wand
I'm the one I've got to lean on if I'm gonna to carry on
I'm gonna get an education,
then I'll set the system right
I'm not a "princess" or a "welfare queen,"
and I've learned to fight