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20 Mar 2008 - Fun and No Fun
The Chat last night started off being a little sad because D told me G was using putting music on early as a way of escape. Obviously G has had some pretty difficult times personally over the past few days and just wanted to get out of it all for a while.
G asked what classic album I' d like to hear. I was honoured to be asked and so chose something I thought everyone would like - Fleetwood Mac's Rumours. It went down well with the crowd and I enjoyed listening and singing along to it. Then Ivan chose Help! - another good one I like which I could have chosen myself. Then Queen A Night At The Opera, Hotel California. Someone suggested Pet Sounds. Wish I'd chosen that instead of Queen even. Some great music. I enjoyed it. Something went on between G and Q - don't know why such strong feelings from one side but I don't know the full story. After a feeble attempt to get the bad feeling quashed, I apologised because it is, after all, none of my business. Best to leave it there, so I did. Oh dear. I'm a Libra and hate to see such clashes and I always want harmony and everyone to get along. Sad really but I'm sure there are legitimate reasons. Best to leave it there.
I fell asleep on cam again. Yes. Embarrassing. Kept waking up from time to time. G started whispering something into the mic - addressed to me - something about post-hypnotic suggestion and my getting money for him (he's had money probs this week to put it mildly through no fault of his own). I am sure in my drowsy state that they all had a good laugh at my expense - Rob will have had a good guffaw I am sure.
In my half-awake, half-asleep state I noticed that some really crude stuff was played. It was all in fun for that lot but I felt genuinely upset and shed a few tears. I really do not like all that crude talk. Loads of F's and swearwords. Yes, it can be funny - for some people - I understand that - but for me it's just not funny. Reminds me of my abusive ex who used to swear all the time. G must have known I was talking to Dee at some point and he still played that awful stuff. I was appauled but I've raised Dee to be open minded and she just said she'd heard the clip before! It's just me that's the prude. I prefer decent intelligent conversation rather than listening to a load of swearwords from Peel. That kind of school boy humour is OK amongst the lads and perhaps with a few more-open-minded women than me but I would much rather not hear it at all so next time G puts that crap on, I shall just leave. Dont' have to sit and listen to stuff like that which upsets me and which makes me cry. I can hear them now...."Oh lighten up!" Well I have obviously had a much, much different upbringing to them and I don't have to like it because they do. I shall choose to leave next time and leave them to their crudeness and laughter. I prefer to laugh at/with intelligent writers like Palin and Sykes - their subtle humour beats this rubbish anytime.
Rant over... I'm off to work... Later... Love, Sair xx
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