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9 May 2009 - Facebook Quandary
So now I've found several more people from my distant past on Facebook. All females, slightly older than me, people I knew from the Baptist church I attended as a teenager back in the 1970s. I was pretty good friends with them back then, but have been out of touch with all for 30 years or more.

I want to add them as friends, but am not sure it's a good idea.

They're all still into being "saved" and being born-again Christians and into the Bible and church and all that, and, well... I'm not any longer and haven't been for a very long time.

I miss these gals, but do I really want them reading stuff on my profile page like "Religious Views: 'I need God, not the political church.'" (quoted from a Sam Phillips song from the '90s...)

Do I really want them viewing my Ayn Rand quotes under "Favorite Quotations"? Or knowing I joined groups like "All the Gay Men on Facebook"? Or "I Believe in The Secret/Law Of Attraction"? Or that I'm currently reading a book titled "Ordaining Reality: The Science Behind the Power of Positive Thinking" which ties in stuff from quantum physics and Eastern philosophy?

Do I really want them to know how much I've changed since they knew me? Would they judge me? Would they start preaching at me?

I wish I knew what to do. I liked these people a lot all those years ago, and I'd love to catch up with them again, but I'm not into the same things as they are anymore.

Should I take the leap or let sleeping dogs lie? Anyone reading this have any thoughts?






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