I was having a sliding doors moment. In the first part I was trying to avoid going on a date with this nerd. Because of this I went to a "Party All About Violence" held by Caherine, whom I have not talked to in over 2 years and don't want to. All her freaky hippy-freak friends were there. During the party they all wore black and some girl died.In the other part I was unable to avoid the date and went with him. He turned out to be really nice and I thought that I would see him again, but I was not going to introduce him to my brother because I knew that he would get picked on. I don't like my brother.
When I had finished the date (he had a tattoo of a multi coloured cube on his arm) I ran into Catherine and all her friends. No one had died and they were all wearing pretty feminine clothes.
So we see that the way to go was on the date.