I’ve talked to my boyfriend about the situation that was going on in my head. I should have told him sooner. i told him that I was uncomfortable, feeling pressured, about cuddling so much. I don’t want to break up with him, no, but if that does come to that point, my boyfriend and I will come to a mutual understanding…hopefully… My boyfriend and I are not breaking up – at least not yet anyway! Whew1 i just don’t know if I can go on with this relationship sometimes. I do love my boyfriend very much and I din’t want my boyfriend to change for me but for himself. Do I seem confused?
I am not suure what is going to happen from this day forward but I have a feeling that I can not go on with the relationship I have with my boyfriend at this time for personal reasons. These feelings have been occurring in my thoughts for a long time. Some things in this relationship is not comfortable for me right now as well as being a person of a different faith than my boyfriend’s beliefs. I feel where I have found a place comfortable as far as religion goes, I am not comfortable being in a relationship of two different faiths. It says in he Bible that we are not to be unevenly yoked. I am a person who yet needs to change a lot of habits and things in my life to live a godly life with God himself. One of the things I have to do is change my attitude about this relationship. Do any of my DD friends have any ideas or suggestions to help me in this relationship? I do know that we need to change for oursselves and not for others so my boyfriend has to change for himself, and as far as religion goes, I am not going to push my faith onto him. we are, however, having Bible studies in my home with my pastor becauuse my boyfriend wanted to learn more of the Bible. That is what he has gotten – a batch of lessons that help us understand the Bible. I am not saying that i know more than my boyfriend becaunse I surely don’t know more than him or anyone else. i just want to do what is right. I am beginning to feel that my boyfriend and I are two different people.