I decided to come back here to continue to write, which is what I love to do and to release and let go because it feels so much better. I stopped writing not because I did not have time, but I did get tired of writing about the bullshit with my in-laws and I didnt want to focus too much on that. Even until this day my husband is still grieving behind the shit because it got uglier again this year. Originally, after the New Years incident nothing else was suppose to happen. My husband stayed to himself and then all of a sudden….BOOM!!! Another damn bomb. March was the month we were going to NYC to visit, me and our son for the first time, and plus my husband was going to visit other relatives. Someone, I believe my brother-in-law told my husband stepgrandma that we were coming there in March and she called again asking were we going to stay with her and coming to see her. To make this stupid shit short, she got upset because my husband told her that we have had a hotel booked since January of this year and that we were going to go see her until he found out that she moved to a bad neighborhood and plus she was trying to get my husband to use our money to buy her things, which was not the agreement. So in turn she calls her son, my husbands stepdad, lied to him and he calls my husband talking shit saying his mother is on a fixed income and when we come to NYC we cannot stay with her and if we come to her house that he will have all the males in his family escort my husband, me and our son off of her property. We did not want to go around her anyway because she starts mess. So I talked to her on facbook since she was scared to answer her phone and she lied about my husband, my husband calls his stepdad cursed him about about threatening us and then my husbands brother messages him on facebook about my husband cursing his dad out as if he is gonna do something to my husband and so of course the family is split once again. The stepdad changed my mother-in-laws number and so if my husband has to speak to his own mother he has to call the stepdad and speak with him first. OF course my husband said fuck it because his mother did not have his back at all, but she sided with her husband as always. IM sorry but there is no dick that good to make me turn my back on my child for a man. His stepdad, even if it is was his real father, was wrong and should not get mad because he provoked my husband. YOu do not threaten a mans wife and child, I dont care if that was his birth son, you are asking to get cursed out or disrespected. A week later after we came from NYC the damn stepdad wrote an overly dramatic letter of apology and crap. The sad part about the whole situation is that my husbands mother knows how her mother-in-law is because she has done foul things to her and so I expected her to know better when things have gotten out of hand. But I do know this much, she misses my husband, and our son and I know she knows about us having another baby on the way. Her lost. No matter what problems we have as a family we know how to put differences aside for the kids, but apparently she does not think we do because she knows how childish her and her husband are.
So now things have been fucking peaceful and the week after next two of my husbands family members are suppose to be coming to live with us. I warned my husband that I did not have a good feeling abut it because of some of the things I have seen and I feel we are being used and that these people are preying on my husbands sympathy because of the situation with him and his mother and one of the family members that are coming is trying to use this at their advantage. I sooooo dont want no more shit from his side of the family. I like most of them with no problem, but damn. I just dont want my husband to think I only want it to be about my family only,but my family hasnt been bringing shit like that to us like his family has and it is sad. So I havent made an issue about these two family members, im going to let him figure this one out too. I tried to tell him about one aunt when I caught on to her bull…he found out I was right, I told him about the stepdads mother….I was right about her too, and now IM telling him about these two.